Why is she like, stealing from me ?

So, one of my best friends, yeah i know i have another question about her, so first, yes she copies me, yes she still does it & it annoys me very much but i’ll suck it up & get over it. But what bothers me, this bothers me SO MUCH, i HATE, HATE HATE HATE theives, what does she doooo ? She’s stealing things from me ? Yes ? She came over the other day, my birthday, what was she wearing ? One of my necklaces. I noticed about a month before one of the tacks on my walls was missing a necklace, & she wears it to my house..On my birthday ? Whatttt theee…? Anyways. This isn’t the first thing. When i was in school, my mom had just bought new school shirts, (i had to wear uniforms) & she came over one day, 4 new shirts are missing, their all grey. The next day, she’s wearing one of them. Whhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhy. She’s also done this with jeans. She has her own money, plenty. She can buy her own stuff. Her parents will buy her stuff. But instead, she’s steallllllllling, from meeeeee ? I’m fed upppp with her. Ahh. I want to confront her, & i will eventually, but i need ideas. Anyone ? Thankks.

Answer #1

Well if you are absolutely positive that the things she had were in fact yours, then you need to do something about it. If I were in your shoes, I would wait until I seen her again with something of mine, and I would tell her to give it to me. If she refused, I would have a talk with her parents. Telling them that she has multiple items of yours, that have been missing. Tell them you want the stuff back, and would appreciate it if they talked to her about it, and make sure she doesn’t do it again.

Nobody here can tell you why SHE is stealing from you…that is something only she knows. It really doesn’t matter why…the point is, she is doing it…and it’s wrong. If you need to, you can get YOUR parents involved…they can help you out if HER parents decide to be stubborn, and on their child’s side.

Answer #2

Her parents are the same way as she is. They steal. They cheat. They lie. I’ve said things to her like, oh i had something like that, but it’s gone all of the sudden ? & she would say something like ohh that’s a shame & change the subject. I have talked to my mom about it. She keeps saying confront her, confront her, which i will eventually do, but my mom won’t do anything. I can’t tell my dad, he will go crazy.

Answer #3

Doesnt that make her a cleptomaniac? My friend has stolen from me -_- and she says ‘I cant help it’ I dont have her round very often and Im always watching her. I dont understand why you would keep hanging around with someone who steals from you this much! Say something to her its YOUR stuff at the end of the day and it shouldnt take someone else to tell you that. She obviously copies her parents if they steal and cheat. If you have no luck with asking her personally, write down every occasion things have gone missing and shes worn them, keep all your receipts and go to the police.

Answer #4

Well, I defiantly think you need to confront her. You can’t just let her keep taking all your stuff that either you, or your parents bought. It’s just not right. What do you mean your dad will go crazy? Maybe that is a good thing, maybe he can actually confront them and demand your stuff back…and if they refuse you guys can take it to court.

Answer #5

Also, stop allowing her into your house, stop being her friend all together if she is going to be like that. If there is some reason she has to be at your house sometimes, then you need to watch her every move, and make sure she doesn’t steal anything.

Answer #6

My dad will go insane. He get into a bad arguement which will end up into a fight with her dad. My parents don’t like her. I don’t usually let her in my house, she was dropping off something. I have no idea how she gets this stuff, possibly when i’m sleeping, bathroom, helping around the house. I just don’t understand. When ever she wants to come over i make up excuses.

Answer #7

I hate it when people steal. /: I’m usually watching her when she’s over also, but my mom is always calling me off to do stuff, or i’m breaking up my sisters, or somethings always going on, it’s like, grrr. I’m okay with her when we’re not at my house. Or at hers. Pretty much anywhere else, i don’t really care. It bugs me, that she steals from me. & i think she wore it to my house, on my birthday to probably prove that i’m stupid. She’s the kind of person that would do that. Her mom taught her these kind of things, i talk to her mom sometimes. When i went shopping with them they stole things… I remember everything.

Answer #8

Well, if you don’t want your stuff stolen anymore, then you need to make it clear to her and your parents that you don’t want her in your house because she steals. If she is never in your house, she cannot steal from you…simple.

Answer #9

Well youve been given advice if you dont take it and do something with it. Then more fool you ‘& i think she wore it to my house, on my birthday to probably prove that i’m stupid.’ Maybe you are. Prove her wrong girl!!

Answer #10

all you can do is stop being around her…. that is the only solution …if she is like your best friend just talk to her … if she was my Bff i would be like I WILL GIVE IT TOU YOU BUT DONT STEAL IT FROM ME….

Answer #11

Maybe she’s jealous of your stuff?

Answer #12

Uhm seriously why havent you confronted her yet? Also, why are you still friends with someone who steals from you? Who cares why she’s doing it.

Answer #13

dont stop being her friend. you obviously care about ehr alot to have put up with it fir this long. all you can really do it talk to her about it. i know its easier dais than done, but think about it, your being more of a friend if you confront her and maybe have a bit of an argue ment (were girls, thats how it always works.lol) cuz if you dont it could get her into ALOT more trouble in the long run.

Answer #14

i think that u should have a talk with her and try to support her while trying to help her get over her problem

Answer #15

because she’s got a BIG, LESBIAN CRUSH ON YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SUCK ON THAT!!!!!!

Answer #16

O.o…your cool

Answer #17

girrl i know ;-)

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