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Someone who wants to help me or use me? or something worse.

Please honest to GOD HELP ME!!! This is gonna be the weirdest thing ever so bare with me.

So I met this guy & we know each other very little and we live close to each other, but the thing is we had a first meeting tonight, and I was shy and I kinda distant myself because I didnt know him too well and I dont like to hug or anything physical like that unless I know them longer.He kept trying to pressure me to do things and I kept saying now and he still tried to pressure me. He has been saying how I live in this shell and that there is someone in my life that is holding me back from overcoming my shyness, but I dont know

The thing was when he said all this, he was horny and it kinda scared me you know. I am honestly feeling real uncomfortable with it, and I dont know what to do. im 20 and I know that a lot of the guys my age are only interested in sex. He said he wants to meet me next week to try and “ help me” get out of my shell wanting to do like artistic nudes, and wants to finger me..

I dont know what to do please to god help me

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Answer #1

Kick him to the curb.

Answer #2

I dont think you should ever hang out with a guy who makes you that uncomfortable! But yeah obviously it sounds like he does want to have sex with ya and I think if you dont even want to hug him than yeah you should stay away!! You dont want to put yourself in a position to get hurt

Answer #3

Of course you’re going to feel uncomfortable, you don’t know the guy, let alone trust him. The guy is horny and will say ANYTHING to get you into the sack. I’m shy also and have made many mistakes giving into guys like this one. He’ll take what he can get and hit the road. Wait for a guy who will actually repect you. Good luck!!

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