So much fighting; so confused

You have a couple of things to think about

-Are you ending your arguments and actually solving the problem - or do you just move on and forget about them. If you don’t solve the problem - it will come back up and it will cause problems because you will still be thinking about it constantly because you both never addressed the issue. If you want a relationship to work - you have to learn how to use your arguments to learn about each other and make the relationship grow. You have to resolve every argument and you have to know when to take the blame and move on.

-It could be that you two are just no compatible for each other. People fall in love with the wrong people all the time. Just because you are in love - does not mean that it will work out and you will be happy. Love is a lot more than that and relationships take a lot of work.

oh, and I ended it with my boyfriend, just so everyone knows. and I’m much happier actually. =) I’m going to date other people and see what happens. if it’s meant to be we’ll end up together again, if not we won’t.

when we fight; he usually freaks out, and sometimes I do too, then it ends in him just not talking for a while, like our recent fight; he still wont talk to me. I mean, he will forgive me soon enough; we used to talk about our arguments a lot but lately he just, doesnt want to talk it out anymore, he has a lot of stress and I totally understand that, its a really hard time for both of us, so I mean, I cant tell if its the end of the relationship, or if we are just really hitting a hard spot. relationships do that right?

That’s hot a healthy relationship - you either need to work on your communication skills (both of you) or you need to end it.

Stress or not - that’s no excuse to treat someone bad.

BEFOR you FIGHT THINK ABOUT IS IT WORTH FIGHT FOR LEARN TO LET your ANGER OUT different WAYS THAT HELPS a lot LIKE you CAN BE FIGHTIN and BE LIKE BABY I LUV you SO MUCH HE GONNA LOOK AT you LIKE what? AND BE LIKE I LUV you AND DER you GO

it doesnt work that easy, we dont really fight in person, he lives in another time. so pretty much; our texts get misunderstood or something. I know the fight isnt worth it but its like, he gets in a bad mood and he wants to fight or something.

I’m having the same issues with my boyfriend. he’s 20, I’m 18. he gets mad at the stupidest things. and I don’t know what’s up with him lately. he got mad at me at a high school ball game last friday and hasn’t talked to me since.

it’s pretty upsetting. I love him and I don’t want to lose him, but I’m not about to put up with him getting mad at me all the time and ignoring me continuously. it would also be different if I knew WHY he is ignoring me…but yeah, I think the best solution for me and maybe you is just to ignore them back.

guys tend to become more interested if they think you’re not as interested. that’s what I’m doing for now, and if it doesn’t work I’m going to end it later this week. (as hard as that will be we’ve been dating for 2 years) :( good luck though, and give me your opinion too. am I doing the right thing?