So, Im unsure what to do

Okay so I have a thing with one of the senior guys and im a freshman. I’ve had a thing with him since 7th grade like oneand off. I know he’s had a lot of girlfriends. Like once he breaks up with one he has a new one within 24 hours. And I know hes had sex with more than 15 people. He taught me how to make out and was my first kiss. I havn’t done anything more than make out with a guy but he (senior guy) wants me to give him and head and a hand job should I do it? I mean I want to date him again but everyone is just telling me hes a player and hes just going to use me to get sex.. I really have no idea what to do any ideas.

Answer #1

Well ya go ahead and suck on a object that has been in that many different places ,,, why would you want to date a guy like that he obviously isn’t trying to settle down with anyone.. you’re only going to get hurt messing with him.

Answer #2

How do you know he doesnt do that to all the girls he wants to get some action with? If he knows you like him, he will do/say whatever he needs to, to get what he wants. He knows just the type of girls to pick out, the ones who are naive, and vulnerable. Hes a teenage boy, he isnt going to all of a sudden find a girl to settle down with. You just have to be strong, and in control, and not let him get to you like all the other girls. What makes you think you are different than the 15 other girls? They most likely all felt exactly the way you did, and where did it get them? Im sure it left them hurt, and feeling used.

Answer #3

When I said I kinda want to date him I was saying that becuase I swear he asks me out dailey and my answer is always no I feel like hes changing and isnt the same as he was before…but then again he did hook up with a girl while he was dating someone so im just lost in everything..So everyones saying just forget him, but how do I go about doing that when he finds me after all my classes texts me constantly calls all the time and shows up at my house randomly.

Answer #4

Ya I know and realize that.. Everytime he asks to come over and do stuff I say no… He says he really likes me from a number of reasons..Is he just trying to play me to do st uff wiith him? I mean no one in my family likes him at all and I told him I didn’t want to date him but he keeps bugging me like do you like me now… oh how bout now.. I really dont know what to do Im so confused!

Answer #5

Sounds like a player whos not worth your time, sorry sweetie.

Answer #6

I mean I want to date him again>> What do you consider dating?

These are all RED FLAGS>> he’s had a lot of girlfriends. Like once he breaks up with one he has a new one within 24 hours.

hes had sex with more than 15 people. Everytime he asks to come over and do stuff I say no

Hes telling you he likes you so you’ll give him what he wants. Hes only playing you just like all the rest! Hes not ready for ank kind of commitment, and he just sees you as another quest to conquer! There really isnt anything to be confused about. You already know his sexual history, so why would you even have to think about what you should do. There are so many decent boys out there, who will treat a girl like a person, not like an object. Dont waste your time on this horny disrespectful jerk, save yourself respect and look for a boy who will treat you the way a girl deserves to be treated!

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