im 19.... I never thought id get this low! but ill make the story short I've been sleeping with this guy for 1 year that I really like that has been with his girlfriend for over 5 years.....At the start he was saying he was gona leave his girlfriend for me because he liked me and all this shit but now his confirmed im just sex on the side. Its so hard not to talk to him because I like him....his tried to stop talking to me because he sed he wants to get his relo back on track but he cant help it he said im to much of a temptation........I've tried not to talk to him for a few months it doesnt work I still want him and I know nothing going to happen with him and me anyway..oh and he said he told his girlfriend he has been cheating and she said im glad I made him happy what the f*ck!!! arrrggggg it sounds so sluty I need some sence knocked into me
Well, i just told my exs gf everything just recently. She is a very naive girl too. My ex hates me now, but he'll get over it in a few months just like he usually does. Theres been isolated incidents, and then she would call me telling me to leave her bf alone, that he doesnt wanna talk to me, and that he hates me... (when hes the one that initiates everything) then i would get mad because i was the one getting blamed, and id say something, and she would tell me, "ya its all in your dreams". This went on for 2 yrs. The last straw was last weekend...i finally told her that we needed to talk. She then asked me, "why, has he been cheating on me?" (ya, your entire so-called relationship) but it wasnt just me. He told me he makes out with other girls. She said she kind of thought, (but she is just too stupid to confront him). I think shes just scared to ask, that way she doesnt have to deal with all the hurt! After we got done talking, i could tell she was MAD, but it seemed like things were cool between us, until 4 days later online i asked her how things were going and she wouldnt answer. Shes been fooling around behind his back now with guy # 3. I guess they deserve one another. So if you decide to tell her...you really have nothing to lose...but he does. You'll be no worse off than you are right now. He might have a few words to say to you, and he'll probably never want anything to do with you again. So its your choice. If you just want him to use you for sex, or if you'll feel better getting it all out in the open! Good Luck!!
Even if you tell his gf and she leaves and all that drama, do you honestly think he will still be with you after that? and even if he does what makes you think you can trust him? he has been cheating on his gf for over a year!!! wat makes you think he wont cheat on you if you end up together? he is using you and lying and you deserve better and need to respect yourself more to get someone that you deserve. You know your better than this and dont need us to "knock some sense into you" becos the fact that you know you need to hear this from someone proves to yourself you know you need to get away from him!
You wanna know something? I think the guy is one hell of a liar. I bet if you confronted her, you'd get a different version. I dont believe for a minute that he told her.
Even if i did tell his gf my self i still dont think she would care... shes soo stupid..he was seeing me everyday for 1 year and she had no clue until he "told her".
