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sibling trouble

im always getting in trouble with my parents for things my sister does. she’ll start a fight so ill fight back (not physical fights) and im the one who gets in trouble for it and if shes bugging me and I ask her to please stop she’ll freak out and start yelling and ill get in trouble. what do I do with this mini satan??

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Answer #1

im the middle child, and my older sister and I used to be like that. I dont know how many years there are between you too, but there are only a little over 2 between us. we used to be constantly at each others throats to the point where we ended up in fist fights every night. my parents even moved us out of the same room. eventually it passes. you both mature and grow up a little. The two of us can now even loosly be considered friends. its nuch better now that we dont live together. she went away to college and im stuck in high school still. but we are getting along. hang in. its hard I know but it gets better. were sisters for a reason.

Answer #2

This is probably not the answer that you want to hear but it is because (assuming you are the oldest) your parents expect you to be above it. I am the youngest brother of two sisters and I did it because I felt power when my sister got in trouble for a fight that I started. Of course now I feel like a guilty spoiled brat. Wether or not it seems like it though, little miss “satan” actually looks up to you. That gives you the advantage to (yes more advice you dont want to hear) ignore it and she will eventually give up.

Answer #3

dont fight back, ignore her no matter how hard it can be, try to be nice even if shes not

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