Ok, long story short, this guy is new at my work, my friend and I began talking to him... Well we have had one long 30 minute conversation about random stuff, then one night I was working later than he was,... He stood at my work station and talked to me for 25 minutes... He makes me laugh, not easy to do... Well I wanted his phone number but I have come to face the fact that I have a huge fear of rejection, the last time I asked a guy for his number he said he was going to shoot himself... So my friend and he BF gave him my phone number.... An hour later... He texted me, the first night we texted for an hour then tonight 3 hours.... My friends all say that I should ask him out but he's shy. I'm terrified and shy... What do I do??? Is waiting a week or two too long to let him know that I am interested? OMG someone please help... I don't think it is normal for a 21 year old to be having these problems with a 29 year old... :(
Lol I am 21. I find the best solution is to practice going out everyday ex. going to a store and asking sale associates things or even the male ones. Just practice that first. Also practice confidence and eventually you become so.
I think this guy already likes you. I would just say "so how about that number?" Lol just kidding. Just say "what are you doing this weekend?" If he gives you an opening like "not much" ask him "would you want to hang out after work?" Or "So when are we going to hang out?"
Also I would do it as fast as possible because the more you think about it the harder it will feel. And asking a guy out isn't a big a deal. It's MUCH smaller than you make it.
From what you said i think he is shy.but you both wont know until you do.waiting for time is a bad idea.it might make him think that.may be you are not interested.just start a normal conversation and tell him that you got nothing to do after work and ask if he wants to join you for cofee.it is easy believe me.once you do it you will beat your fear as well.he texts you and comes to talk to you.i believe its a good sign that he likes you.hope you do it girl,good luck!! :)