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Should we do "it" or should we break up?

Ok,me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while and I really dont want to do it untill im married and he wants to do it,we havent done anything and weve been going out for like 1yr,(im 16 hes 17)he saw me naked and now hes pushing me more than ever,so should I break up with him or should I do it with him?

I know he kinda sounds like a player but hes not hes one of the nicest people I’ve ever met and I known him sence I was 10,hes gotten into like a million fights with guys who are mean to me or try to hit on me

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Answer #1

you need to tell him you don’t want sex yet. if he is truly a gentleman he will quit pressuring you.

Answer #2

this may sound blunt, but I see a relationship as being with someone you are both emotionally and physically intimate with, if not, it is just a friendship. That doesn’t necessarily mean sex, but you said you haven’t done anything, have you kissed? He doesn’t sound like a player he sounds like a really nice guy, I mean, you have been together a year and still not done anything physically and he still wants to be with you, he obviously really likes you. I find it really nice to just lay on the bed cuddling with my boyfriend, maybe you could start there…

Answer #3

you might not want to have sex yet, I mean you haven’t even done anything else. quite frankly you may wanna mess around with other things so you could see if it would make you comfortable with the idea of having sex. if your still unsure if your up for it just tell him that you don’t feel right and maybe for him to wait more or something. hope that helped a bit. (:

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