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Should the wedding wait?

Well im engaged to the man I’ve been waiting for all v my life but we have been having problems and I donnt know what to do our fighting started when I found him in bed with his “ex” he said I blew it out porportion because he was drunk were supposed to get married next month should I forgive hime or put the wedding on pause

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Answer #1
  • Put it on pause . . I agree with hysterical , He doesn’t sound good . He lied I don’t buy it . He’s making an excuse than if you get married he’s gonna think he can get away with anything . So , try to talk to him if he has feelings for her still , and try to fix your problemss ..
Answer #2

Put the wedding to a pause. Right now you have a bunch of problems that need fixing with your soon to be. If you just get married then you’ll just be ignoring these problems. You need to work out these problems first, and the thing he said about being drunk; I don’t buy it. You definitely need to wait. Its important that you fix it or else your going to give him the idea that he can just get away with everything and point the finger at the drink. I hope you make the right choice though, he doesn’t sound that great to me. Sleeping with his ex a month before he is getting married. If it was up to me I would’ve ended the relationship right on the spot when that happened.

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