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Should I try to talk to him or get over him?

This is the first time I have ever done this but here I go, 4 months ago I started hooking up with a guy. It was purely friends with benefits and neither of us wanted more. Everything was perfect we saw each other everyday and it was great now the hard stuff We were going home from college (same town) and the night before we were hanging out with friends and he called us a couple (freaked me out at first but I was then like hey who knows-maybe I can take a chance with this guy the next day we left school and it all changed We finally talked again after 1 week and it was because a friend of mine asked if I would go on a blind date. I called to talk to him and he kept saying he wasn’t sure about what he wanted and ended up telling me to go on the date. Fact is it has been 2 1/2 weeks now that we have been back and I want him still, I am not ready to give him up … should I go just get over him or should I tell him how I feel … I don’t even need a relationship I just one last hookup

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Answer #1

u need a realtionship with this guy or else you will get hurt and always feel like you want “one more hook up” if you tell wm how you feel and he dont feel the same, try to get over em. if you tell em how you feel and he feels the same, go for it. good luck kay

Answer #2

well your emotionally torn between those two choices which means emotions are involved with this guy, you just don’t want them to be I was honestly in the same situation take the risk, but know that if another guy comes along, be careful of cheating it seems you hooked up easily with this guy, so why not another? if you take a chance, you might like the person more than a hookup its hard for most girls to just hook up and not feel anything towards the guy

no matter how hard they try and push it down good luck:)

Answer #3

Why prolong the agony with one last hookup? The sooner you let it go, the sooner you’ll get over it. You knew how he felt going into this, and you agreed as well, so if you are/were looking for more (which is usually what friends w/benefits ends up happening, with one of the parties) then I suggest learning from this. I dont believe that people can survive on a relationship that is purely only sexual! One is bound to develop emotional feelings for the other.

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