Should I try to move out?

ok I know that at the age of 14 I can choose which gaurdien I want to live with and im 15 in novmeber

I was thinking of moving in with my dad and out of my moms not becuase im unhappy just to see what its like and too explor a bit my dad and that half of my family were planning on buying a hotel up in torque and I live in redditch if I moved in with them and then moved up there when they buy it I would have to quite my part time job as a window cleaner but would play with my band at the hotel and would do some bar work and all kinds of odd jobs but I’ve also been told that they are going to build a pool when they get it and that if I want I can be life guard which sounds great to me

I love both my parents perhaps not as much as I should but I know all about what happend to them I like my dad more but I like my mom equally for bringing me up and being there if I want her to be there

I dont want to upset my mom and I was planning on moving out when I turn 15 however my step dad thinks I should what till 16 cuase other wise it will be a bit of a slap in the face to my mum but I dont think I can trust anyone in my family to give a fair even sided opinion

so what should I do

Answer #1

if i had to choose between either i would live with each by like going to a school near your moms or near ur dads which ever school you like best than choose that school and if its closest to ur mom/dad then live with them. then on weekends you can goto your dads/moms house

Answer #2

If i was you i wouldnt try to move out of your moms because i tryed that before to go move with my dad but i ran away and then came back and i hit my mom and i went to DH for a weekend and i didnt like it.So i would stay with your mom and try to make it with her because i am im 14 years old and bout to turn 15 in november and im doing the best i can im following her rules and im getting to do more when i do things around the house.

But Take Care!!

Answer #3

Be where you’ll be truely loved and secure…I wish you the best !!

Answer #4

i can multitask

Answer #5

listen 2 ur dad and ur heart. y r u working so hard? u should focus on school.

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