Should I tell my hubby I slept with his brother before we met?

there are just some things that would do more harm then good, this would only help YOU feel better while harming so many other things in the process

Well, now that you say that, yes. You’re probably going to need your husband’s help to take care of this guy while “keeping the peace”. If you’re married and you’ve made it clear to this guy that you’re not interested, and he still doesn’t back off, you need to take the gloves off. Just make sure to get to your husband first because guys like his brother will often lie when they don’t get what they want. And it would look bad you trying to counter it with the truth afterward.

That is probably true but me and my husband are so close we are really happy but his brother always comes round our house and tries it on I have told him that I want nothing to do with him I only talk with him to keeo the peace between him and his brother I dont want to hurt anyone but is it worth telling my hubby or putting it behind us and get on with our lives as if it never happened. it was before me and my husband met. we have no secrets with each other but we both agreed what happened in our past relationships isnt important I just dont know what to do for the best I love my hubby dearly jo x