Should I listen to my boy or the people talkin

Ok wel me and my boyfriend have been together for like 5 months and everything was going gud til al these people started sain that he has been cheatin on me, when I asked him about it he said that he loves me to much to that to me and I beleive him that he didn but all my friends dont, ther number of girls that he has apparantly cheated on me keeps growing, I found out about another 1 yesti… Im realy confused about it help

Answer #1

Even if he cheated on you do not care about it if you did not notice that. People who are saying these type of informations may ruin your relationship. If you feel good in the relationship then do not let yourself to confuse about it, because that good feeling is the most important circumstance. So do not let yourself to influence by any type of gossips.

Answer #2

the worst thing to get involved in is the whole “friends saying that your b/f is cheating”, if your b/f told you that he’s not, then maybe he’s not..your friends or the people talking could be jealous of you guys being together…so don’t listen to what people say..I did that one time; it turns out that the person who said my boyfriend was cheating was telling a lie and I believed them and it ruined our relationship…hope I helped hun:)

Answer #3

Its not like ONE person is telling you. The key words here are >”al these people”. Of course your boyfriend is going to tell you hes not. Do you really think he would tell you if he was? 1 person might lie and say hes cheating, but not a bunch of people! Ask yourself these questions>> Are your friends trustworthy? Would they have any reason to accuse him of cheating, or lie to you? I knew quite a few girls whos boyfriends cheated on their girlfriend, and the sad thing is, they all just blew it off because their boyfriend said the exact same thing to them. You should NEVER choose a boy over your girlfriends, because boyfriends will come & go out of your life, where true friends stick by your side. How do you know your boyfriend is telling you the truth…are you with him 24/7 that he wouldnt have any time to be with someone else? You need to start asking questions> Ask these people where they’ve seen your boyfriend when hes cheating. Who are the girls. Maybe ask those girls.

If people kept telling me my boyfriend was cheating…I wouldnt be so quick to believe him just because he says he “loves” me. Do your own investigating…without his knowledge. My ex’s girlfriend never believed anyone either, and after 2 years. she finally opened her eyes! (They are no longer together)

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