Should I go for him?

Alrighttt. Here’s my story. I dont need help, I just want to know what You think. I mean, feel free to give me advice, but I just want to See other people’s imput on this, besides people I know, that are my friends.

So this guy, his name is tom. He’s a senior at my school, and im a junior. We have been friends since I was a freshman, but we wernt close or anything. Once in a while hangout in a group. Then this year, we started talking more, hungout at soccer games, And public places. He gave me rides home a lot, and talked to me online (since I Dont have texting) lol Then he asked me if I would wear his jersey for His football game that was coming up soon. And im like…welll..okay. I don’t know about this, You see I just find you as a friend, and if I wear this, I dont want you getting the idea were anything more.

And he’s like, ohh no. I know, we’re friends. Just good friends.

So im like oh okay. He gets it! So I wore his jersey that week.. And then the next week too.

Then I get a message on myspace saying How, he doesnt know what to do, Because he knows I only see us as good friends, but he Actually sorta likes me now.

And im like, oh shitt..now what do I say?? So I told him, I kinda had a little thing for him as well, But I don’t know what to do, because I reallly dont like to date (you know Boyfriend and girlfriend)

My last ex which was over the summer ended up To being a stupid asss relationship that was worthless..but still. I told him how I don’t know why I date, and how I never do. (like really, I have had what? 2 boyfriends) I just said how I think its pointless and it makes things Less fun and better as a teen right now.

So, yeah. Thats what I said.. And he hasnt checked it yet.

But stilll. Now what am I apozta do? I kinda like him, But I fricken hate being with one person. I just think its Stupid as a 16 year old right now..my opinion. But I know he’s going to be confussed like, he Wants to hangout, he likes me, but I dont wanna date? Kinda sounds stupid, ik. But its the truth..

How do you think he’s going to take this? Welll, you can say anything you’d like.

Kthanks.

Answer #1

I think you should go for it but thats just me.

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