Should I Give Into Sex?

okay, here’s the dealio: my boyfriend who’s two years older than me was talking to me the other day and asked me if I’d ever have sex with him, I took a minute to think then typed back (we were IMing since he was grounded from the phone) “sure…” I didn’t think he’d take it seriously, and he did. then the next day he called me because he was un-grounded and said “we’re going to next weekend.” I was confused and I said “what next weekend?” then he said “sex.” I said, “oh, uh, im not gonna be in town.” so now in two weeks he’s gonna be over at my house, EXPECTING ME TO HAVE SEX WITH HIM!!! I know I was stupid for ever saying “sure…” and please dont lecture me on that, I just want to get OUT of this! and im scared to say no because he has anger problems and hit me once, and I dont want that to happen. please help me.

Answer #1

leave him… before it gets worse… you deserve better..

Answer #2

tell him you’re not ready to have sex with him, and if he is a good boyfriend and cares about you he will accept it. If not then I would advise you get away from him, don’t let him pressure you into doing something you don’t want to. As for the hitting it is unacceptable at all times and he should not being doing it, if he ever does it again, get away from him. x good luck

Answer #3

tell him that your not ready to have sex and its too soon in your relationship. if he gets angry or hits you.. hes obviously just using you for sexual things so he is not worth it at all. I hope everything works out.

Answer #4

im scared to say no because he has anger problems and hit me once, and I dont want that to happen.>>GET OUT OF THIS RELATIONSHIP…NOW!! Your boyfriend does NOT love you. Physical abuse is NOT love, and pressuring someone into doing something they dont want to do also is NOT love! This guy is abusive, AND controlling (obviously taking advantage of your vulnerability, naiveness, and your age), and that shows he doesnt have an ounce of respect for you! Are you that desperate to have a boyfriend you would give up your self respect, and dignity? This is NOT a healthy relationship! Lose the loser, or he might force himself on you.

Answer #5

he hit you! At such a young age! Wow. I’m shocked your still with him hun, that is REALLY bad. It starts with a hit and it escalates honestly. You can say “OH, it’s not like him” or “he won’t do it again” but you don’t know that. Most people do hit you again and it gets more violent every time and more painful. With just this incident alone I would say leave him. Life’s too short.

You should never feel pressured in to sex- that is so wrong. Virginity is so special and you will honestly regret it if you loose it to the wrong person, a person who is forcing you in to sex. End it with him now and tell him you don’t want to speak to him anymore. There is plenty more fish in the see and you are still really young. Good luck

Answer #6

dude srsly DO NOT let that fckface EVER hit you again! Like srsly who cares if he wants sex, its about what you want if he really cared he wouldnt expect it of you even though you said sure it doesn’t matter. You shouldve broken up with him the minute he layed a hand on you. You don’t need that sht. Leave him.

Answer #7

You should have left him the moment he hit you. I dont know why you stayed with him after that but that was your choice. Now, you lead him on and now has him to believe that you are going to have sex with him. You shoukdnt have said “sure”. You should have told him straight up that you are not ready and left it at that. If he would have gotten an attitude then you would have known rite away that he just wants you for sexual favors. But, since you already told him that you would have sex with him although you really dont want to you should tell him that you thought you were ready but youre really not. DONT DO IT IF YOU DONT WANT TO…UNDER ANY KIND OF PRESSURE. He may get mad but o’well…you deserve better. Please dont have sex with him because he want you to. And if he hits you again you should call the police or leave him for good.

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