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Should I be nice to my boyfriend?

Okay,well me and my boyfriend are in love head over heels but were in a long distance relationship and he has the biggest family problems EVER! so he is ALWAYS upset im lucky if he is happy 4 times in one week and he can also be a big jerk …like I will tell him im leaving for a shower and he is upset then when I come back he would be like wow you took forever now I have to leave because my stupid mom well whtever bye luv you and I would get upset because he acs like he hates me because I wasent there to tlk to him for a little while and his mom yells at him what do I do, be mean back and blame his behaviour on him or just keep on trying to cheer him up and hide some of my feelings so he doesnt feel bad for me and worries more for himself…?

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Answer #1

you should be nice to him, his parents are probably the main cause for why he’s upset and he probably ends up taking his anger out on you without even realizing it. i think that you two need to have a serious talk. tell him how you feel.

Answer #2

Just be there when you can. If you sense a vibe like he’s really upset, be prepared for him to take anger out on you. Maybe be like I’m sorry I can’t handle this right now I’ll text you later dont b mad. Maybe tell him to listen to your problems once in a while so he can relate. Let him know you’re there but you will leave if he gets mad or angry at you. Let him know that he has his problems but to not take it out on you because you prob don’t deserve that (no one does). But yes OF COURSE you should be nice if he’s going through hard times. If you really love him that is.

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