Should I be more worried that my fiance might be cheating?

Hey everyone im a 21 year old guy and im in the army so im 30 000 miles away from my fiance. Now I trust my fiance completely but lately she has been gettin off line to go to the pool hall a lot and she just tells me she likes it there . But her bestfriend who is also my friend told me the other day that my fiance met a guy online and she met him there and when I asked her about it she admited it but told me I have nothing to worry about . My fiance has been payin a lot less attention to me lately and my fiance’s bestfriend has been givein me a lot more attention even tho she is married and has two kids but her husband dont treat her the way she deserves and she likes talkin to me because I tell her she deserves better and that shes beautiful but every since shes givein me more attention then my fiance I kinda started likein her . My question is .. Do you think I should be worried that my fiance is cheating? And do you think her bestfriend told me because she is my friend or do you think her best friend has feelings for me ? Please help im so confused

Answer #1

Its hard to say if she is actually cheating on you BUT it is safe to say its innapropriate (in my opinion) for her to meet a guy online and then in person. I am currently in a long distance relationship. My boyfriend trusts me completely- I went out the other night to a bunch of clubs and had a good time -nothing wrong with that-BUT I certainly didnt meet a guy there- and I would NEVER chat online with a guy and then meet him somewhere. There is nothing wrong with her going out- it may help her deal with you being gone but there is a way to conduct yourself when you are in a serious relationship-and it doesnt sound like she’s doing that. How would she feel if you did the same thing? I would let her know that you trust her and want her to have fun, but dont feel comfortable with what she did. Honestly- that is a real big red flag, so be careful and keep your eyes open. As far as the best friend- yeh she probably does like you- and the appeal of having a guy that would treat her well but that is WAY too much drama and mess to be involved with- the married best friend with kids- not worth it. If the best friend told you bc she likes you than she is scandalous- if she told you because she’s your friend than that means she may know more to the story- like whats really going on, but cant tell you. I just cant think of a reason why she would meet someone online and then in person if it wasnt a date, can you?

Answer #2

You should be worried. IF YOU LOVE HER. And, I wouldnt be suprised if she is. She needs someone to fill her names. Your not home. So what is she gonna do!!? &I think she told you because it could be true.

Answer #3

Honey let me tell u . Don’t get married if you have any doubts. Marriage with doubt is a bad start. I think the best friend likes you too , but if she is married that is trouble too. You need to keep her at arms length.

Answer #4

I’m 21 also. I think you two need to re-evaluate your relationship. Not meaning that you two aren’t a good couple but it’s best to just sit down and have a heart to heart otherwise it could destroy what you two have.

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