Should a guy know the real truth if you ever cheared on him?

Well I have this boyfriend and so I cheated on him with my ex but like I didnt mean to. My ex asked if he could come over to hange so I said yea so we hung out but like we kisst and all that. I told my boyfriend abt it but like a way different part, that my ex is the one who kist me and ipushed away when I really didnt tho. So should I tell him the truth or should I just not. Bc were ok right now he just doesnt trust me. I mean come one I wouldnt either but I would never do that to him again I regretted it so much

Help!

Answer #1

He can probably tell that you lied to him about your version of the story with your ex. That’s why he doesn’t trust you. Tell him the truth, so that at least he can respect you for telling him. What happens after is pretty much up to him if he can handle being cheated on.

Answer #2

You should tell him. Relationships are tough enough without having to worry about whether the other person is lying to you. Besides, lies are not a foundation for a relationship, trust is. He deserves to know the truth, how would you feel if it was reversed?

Answer #3

bc were ok right now he just doesnt trust me.

That in itself is contradictory. If he doesn’t trust you, that means the two of you ARE NOT OKAY. And he’s justified in his distrust; you lied to him, and your still lying to him.

Confess… get dumped… learn from your mistakes… move on…

Answer #4

hey I am going thow the same thing and he asked me if I kissed back and I couldnt say yes so I said no and right now I am just working on getting his trust back. right now I am not planing on tell him. maybe if we last even longer then we already have then I’ll tell him but right now let things get back to the way you like it inless you like your ex again

Answer #5

U should tell him that he kissed you and you kinda went with the moment if he likes you he will understand

Answer #6

…even if he LOVES you…he won’t understand.

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