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easy me and my ex been together for 3 to 4 years on new years I got drunk. some girl went and tried to get his attention I saw her kiss him and she passed by me I cursed her out and something went blank and I allegedaly beat her up and she had to do 2 weeks of recovery 3 dayz in the hospital and he got mad at me and we yelled at eachother I think im over him thing is hes part of the family like really close he rents a room out with my aunt she owns a restaurant he helps out I cud easily tag along with my mom and go to lunch and go see him but then again no I believ im over him but I wanna see him to make sure I wanna see his reaction but then again no because what if when I see him all the feelings come back it took a long time for the pain to go away. now what?

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Why do you want to see him? If it’s to rekindle the flame because you still care and think it could work out then I think you should go. But if it’s just going to hurt because he isn’t interested and you might just end up feeling down about the visit then don’t go. There is no use digging at old wounds just for nothing. If you go there, go with a purpose or not at all.

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