What if my Mom watches me shower and makes me uncomfortable?

While taking a shower, my mom walks in on me on purpose and just sits there and stares at me while pretending to do something else. I know she’s watching me and it’s starting to become a regular thing. It’s really freaking me out and I think I might go crazy and never take a shower again. Eventually I’m sure she’s going to reach in the shower and wash me I DON’T WANT THAT TO HAPPEN… Advice please Sad_kloud (Yoshimaru)

Answer #1

tell her to get the f**k away from you. or lock the door. that’s what I have to do, my mom wouldn’t watch me, but she’d check on me like, every 2 minutes. chances are she saw something about people cutting themselves and she doesn’t want you to do it. but, if she does start washing you, take the shower head (if you have one that you can pick up) and whack her with it, or, you can flick soap in her eyes. but still, ewww!!!

Answer #2

Tell her why she’s doing it. And if she does it next time lock the door so u can shower in PRIVITE (There’s something called a lock)

Answer #3

i think u should report this if its making u feel uncoftable cause it sounds like s*xuall abuse

Answer #4

Ok man, talk to her about it. Tell her your uncomfortable, and it should pass. Otherwise, it might continue to be an issue, and could grow into something you’ll need therapy for later on, if you continue to have this fear, if it’s warranted or not.

Answer #5

Dear Penthouse …

lol jk, just like tell her to piss of or something

Answer #6

does she sit there for like the whole time your showering if so, ewww. But yeah, next time she walks in just, ask her what she is doin, or ask her nicely to get out. If you need to lock the door, but I noe my parents would get pissed since we share 1 bathroom. Yeah, I think your best bet is to confront her, tell her that you would really like some privacy when showering. Or you can start singing really badly. haha.

Answer #7

ok that is seriously strange shower when shes out or something or tell someone like your dad or a sibling or a close relative or a friend and if your at skl even a teacher would b better than nothing or tell a guidance counselor and they will keep an eye on things for you but seriously DO SOMETHING NOW BEFORE ITS TOO LATE lol but seriously do

Answer #8

man I had to deal with this to and shes either trying to see if you cut yourself or have any tattoos or piercings or stuff like that

Answer #9

i think you should definitely tell somebody because thats really weird. and i know that must feel EXTREMELY UNCOMFORTABLE!!!! tell a trusted adult or something. or even a friend. maybee a guidance councelor! do it fast before she does something to you?!

Answer #10

you shouldn’ jump to conclusions. I mean it might not be for the reasons you think. I heard that people have had ceisures while showering and sometimes they drown. maybe she heard something like this happen and is just trying to make sure your okay.

Answer #11

One thing… ewww! Report this sick perv to the cops, what are u waiting on, Rape???

Answer #12

and btw sad kloud you share my b-day ;)!! xx

Answer #13

lock the door, and oh my god, that is creepy, thats the kinda thing a step dad or an uncle would do!

Answer #14

Call the cops on her for sexual abuse.

Answer #15

be like what the fu_k are you doing get out :D

Answer #16

EEEWWW

Answer #17

lock the door??

Answer #18

what would be the best thing is talking to her and have her tell her what she feels when she want to whatch you, is she scared you might do something to ourslf? E.c.t. then tell her how you feel and how you need your own pravicy and that you can be trusted. If this dosent stop then it would be a good idea telling someone because it could get worser! Good luck! :)

Answer #19

thats freaky… uhhh lock the door so she cant come in.

Answer #20

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Answer #21

eww lock the door

Answer #22

my mom did this once and I was shaving my vjj so I sat down and put my leggs to cover it up I told her to get out she just started talkin to me so . once she open the curtain I said wtf gtf away she started yellin at me for swearin now I lock the door and eww to your mom why are moms weird like that leave us alone!!

Answer #23

she like you but tell to get the fu*k lost and tell her off

Answer #24

Ewww my mom did that too she opened the curtien and I was like what the heck what is your problem she hasent done it agian but whenever she comes in the bathroom I feel like shes ganna what you could do is shower when shes gone or take a shower in your bra and panties or I’ve never done this but if you have a good enough friend when your at there house you could take a shower

Answer #25

that’s creepy… just next time ask her why she keeps watching you and tell her you’re uncomfortable, if she keeps doing it, lock the door.

Answer #26

“Mom!!! I need my privacy please!”

Try this line, it should work. If it does not work. Then yo, you’re in for a rough ride, be assured you’ve got one hell of a mum. I sure wouldn’t want to be you.

Answer #27

I’m a girl and my mom, when I was 13ish, UNloCKED the bathroom door (I always locked it) with a screwdriver opened the curtain and said I’ll never forget it sicko “Let me see you” I screamed every curse word at her I know covered myself. When I was really small, I remember her saying oh I have to get the toilet paper off of you…need I say more (I was like four) and my sisters saw it. Then, when I was 17 I was in bed with my boyfriend and she unlocked the door of my room, came right up to the bed and tried to rip the covers off us. My boyfriend and I were freaked. Was she trying to jump in bed with us? MAybe she just was trying to get us to stop I dontt know. I am 24 now, and see my parent a couple times a year because I hate her (they are divorced) and when I shower, she comes in, I tell her to get out, and she says ill hurry I wont look I have to pee. Last month I cused her out and told her if she comes near me again I will call the cops. I dont know what to do…should I disown her?

Answer #28

like many others have said lock the door. If you dont have a lock then take a plank of wood from under your bed and shove it between the bottom of the door handel and a rug. Works well until the board brakes which will take a long time. I have one I’ve been using for 7 years. Still good!

Answer #29

For One she can’t do that. For to buy a new shower curtain that she cant she threw.

Answer #30

why you dont lock the door when you get there? if you know she is coming. you are the other one 2

Answer #31

ummm ewww. Lock the door next time.

Answer #32

Just casually ask, wha’cha looking’ for? And If she says what shes looking for just tell her where it is. And depending on what sort of shower you have you could get a new, NOT clear curtain. How long has she been doing this? It could just be a phase, and something she heard startled her (ie news report of accident or something random)

Answer #33

troll

Answer #34

ummm…EWW??? lock the door! your mom is a one big perv. if she gets angry at you for locking the door…tell someone you trust. that is just disgusting.

Answer #35

get her to wash your back and than turn around an stick your dick in her mouth

Answer #36

Ok, there is NO NEED for “COPS”! Simply lock the door, if you dont have a lock, if you have a shower head that you can move around a lot simply take the shower head and SOAK HER COMPLETELY WITH IT. You do NOT under ANY circumstances call the cops on your mother for something as silly as this. Unless shes sexually abusing you, physically abusing you or doing something to hurt you, herself and another person than the Police can stay out of this.

Also another thing is, you should start master to teh baiting in the shower. If she sees you yes I know thats a gross feeling, GROSS FEELING. But atleast if she says something to you than you have an excuse to react AND SAY “ MOM THATS INVADING MY PRIVACY AND WHAT I DO IN THE SHOWER IS MY BUSINESS IM A BIG BOY NOW STOP WALKING IN THE SHOWER ON ME” I am sure after seeing a sight like that she will get the message.

Answer #37

tell her to get the f— away I would seriously lock the door.

Answer #38

Ugh!she a socko man! Is she lezbo?and lock that freak’n door!and if you don’t have a lock then tell her get out of her now you socko!

Answer #39

If your a boy next time she comes in, get out the shower wip out your willy and slap her in the face With it LOL . And if your a girl just scream!!! Hope this helped

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