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Did she stop loving me because I was upset?

I’ve been with a pretty amazing girl for the past 5 months, and things have been going nicely until recently. My grandmother passed a few days ago, and the fact that I was crying when I called to tell her really seemed to turn her off. She didn’t speak much during that conversation, and maybe she was at a lack of words, but the most I got was “Uh..I don’t know what to say” followed by minutes of silence until I had finally sucked it up enough to make up an excuse to hang up. After that, I haven’t gotten any calls, and she only wants to go out on dates if I bring a certain friend along with us. This has happened once before, but it ended fine. I’m really beginning to think I somehow ruined our relationship because I was emotional over the death of a loved one. Does it sound like it’s over to you guys?

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If it is over, then good riddance to her. Don’t you dare feel guilty or like you did anything wrong! It sounds like she reacted in a really awful way when you were going through a tough time. She does not sound like a good partner. A good partner is there to support you and lift you up in good or bad times. You should not be required to always put on a fake happy face for your partner. Your partner should make you feel better, never worse.

Don’t you worry about a thing. You sound like a great guy. If this is over, take it as a sign that she was not good enough for you. You deserve someone who is willing to stand by you.

Now, it’s possible that I am being too harsh on her. Maybe she is upset that you’re upset. Maybe she just does not know what to say to make you feel better. However, I am not really convinced at this point that that’s what the issue is.

I am sorry to hear about your grandmother.

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