Is this sexual harrassmet?

Should I tell a teacher? So, today during gym my friend and I were playing around and punching each other in the arm, and then this boy, who seems to have a crush on me, came over and said “Girls touching girls is lesbian, guys touching girls is okay.” and a in the hallway earlier today on my way to lunch and told me this “What did the lightbulb say to the lightswitch? You turn me on!!!!” last Friday during gym he also got down on one knee and started singing Baby by Justin Bieber. Should I tell my gym teacher?

Answer #1

It sounds more like a schoolyard crush than sexual harassment. If he touches you inappropriately, then yes, you could tell a teacher if it upsets you. But at the moment it’s just a cheeky boy who seems to like you somewhat.

Answer #2

i wouldnt say it is sexual harassment really more of him flirting with you. I would as him to stop and if he doesnt tell the teacher he is making you feel uncomfortable

Answer #3

This is not sexual harassment, it’s a crush. If he touches you or tells you stuff that’s inappropriate, you can then report it your nearest teacher. Tell him to bug off if you don’t like him.

Answer #4

No, it’s not sexual harassment. It’s just immature opinions and jokes. If you wanna tell your teacher you can but that might be seen as snooty…plus, they wouldn’t really be able to do anything anyways.

Answer #5

Of course you should complain to your Gym teacher against this before the boy tries to do something else. But this doesn’t sound like sexual harrassmet, the boy may doing this may be for fun or for a crush on you. You can tell him not to disturb you , if he doesn’t listen to you then you should definitely complain.

Answer #6

thanks! i only asked cuz my friend says it is sexual harrassment.

Answer #7

thanks! i only asked cuz my friend says it is sexual harrassment

Answer #8

thanks! i only asked cuz my friend says it is sexual harrassment

Answer #9

thanks! i only asked cuz my friend says it is sexual harrassment

Answer #10

thanks! i only asked cuz my friend says it is sexual harrassment

Answer #11

thanks! i only asked cuz my friend says it is sexual harrassment

Answer #12

My friend said it is so i asked this to shut her up

Answer #13

My friend said it is so i asked this to shut her up

Answer #14

My friend said it is so i asked this to shut her up

Answer #15

You girls are harrassing each other in punching one another’s arms, than this boy is harrassing you with his behaviour. . The poor lad is just doing his best do do what is expected of a young teenage boy - and it does not come easy especially if they are given a hard time unnecessarily over a bit of fun. . Cut the guy some slack. If you give him a hard time now over what you are describing, you may find you regret it in a couple of years time - when NONE of the guys will speak to you or go near you for fear of being accused of harrassment, inappropriate behaviour, or perversion. .

– Best wishes - Majikthise. .

Answer #16

My friend said it is so i asked this to shut her up

Answer #17

My friend said it is so i asked this to shut her up

Answer #18

My friend said it is so i asked this to shut her up

Answer #19

My friend said it is so i asked this to shut her up

Answer #20

OK - just bear in mind that the lad is probably just starting to notice girls and realize that he likes what he sees. He is trying to show his approval and his clumsy reference to “lesbians” is a poor attempt to make reference to his blossoming interest in intimate behaviour. You and your friend(s) may feel a bit uncomfortable about it at the moment but give it a bit more time - he will become less clumsy, and you may get more interested in him or other boys who will be starting to behave in a similar fashion.

Answer #21

Nah he just likes you

Answer #22

i agree. hes flirting in a crude kind of way

Answer #23

It’s either a crush or he’s messing with you.

Answer #24

Technically this could be considered sexual harassment if you make it known that his advances are not at all appreciated. It may be a good idea to let him know that you are not interested and his flirting makes you uncomfortable. If he persists, then speak to the teacher. His behavior is most likely harmless and he’s probably just going through an awkward phase of sexual discovery. That, however, does not mean that its okay for you to feel uncomfortable. Please don’t feel ashamed or guilty for speaking up for yourself!

Answer #25

Charatreusechick put her finger on it. It’s only flirtation, until you politely but firmly tell him to stop. If he continues after that, it’s sexual harassment.

Answer #26

(oops, sorry for name typo.)

Answer #27

LOL! No the boy is just trying his best. He just likes u. He is not yet to gr8 at talking to girls that he likes so just give him a break. :) He sang Baby? Oh that’s so cute. Man y rn’t the 14 yr olds I hang out with that brave…?… :D Good luck! :D

Answer #28

lol no worries….Not the easiest name to type. I even mess it up while typing!

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