I'm a 14 year old bisexual and I feel like I should stop having sex with boys. I only had sex with a boy once about a year ago and I think I should stop. The sex just hurted becuase it was my first time but I think I should stop screwin boys. I should just have sex with girls. Yesterday I found out that my sister is pregnant and she is only 17. She is throwing her life away. So I dont want to end up like her. Should I just have sex with girls for now? Am I making the right decision???
Firtsly you're saying you sisters throwing her life away although aren't you the one aimlesslly ahving sex just for sex sake? There's no love, theres no relationship you were just thinking about having sex in general. Do you not realise that sex is supposed to be between two people who love each other? I'm no Catholic or anything like that but promiscuity is so high now a days and it is really careless.
At your age- if you were to be in a long lasting relationship and choose to have sex ( depending on the cirumstances) I may say it's fine but your not. You are 14 and shuld concentatre on school and getting a good career.
As for not wanting to end up like your sister- hello!! contraceptives!! If your sister was so neglicent to end up getting pregnant that's her own fault. Doesn't mean you will ( unless negligence and carelessness runs in the family). Getting pregnant shouldn't be a worry at your age.
Girls or boys it doesn't matter. You can choose to have sex with who you want ( offcourse you can) but it doesn't mean anything until it's a relationship. It is meaningless and you will get looked upon as a bit of an easy target.
Well, do what your heart tells you hun. Your only 14, so you really shouldn't be having sex at all. Wait until your older. Sex with boys is not a bad thing, but at the same time, its a 2 edged sword, as long as you use protection, you should be good for the most part. just be very careful.
IMO wait a couple years before getting seriously involved in sex.
Hun, life doesnt revolve around sex. That isnt something that you need to be doing at your age! With NEITHER sex! Be a kid, and just have fun with your friends.
OMG im bisexual two but I think I would rather have sex with girls its just kinkierrr
Damn That Sounds Hot lolz He Must Be Lucky
