How can I make sex less painful when using condoms?

Whenever we use condoms, it hurts. I don’t know why, but it feels like it is scratching my walls. It makes me not want to even use condoms because all I am thinking about is how uncomfortable it feels and the pain rather than enjoying it. What can I do to stop this, without not using condoms at all?

Answer #1

Are you not lubricated enough?

Answer #2

LUBE :D

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Answer #3

yea use more lube

Answer #4

Well, we don’t really use lube, all we use is the lube that’s already on the condom, and “natural lube” would Vaseline work? We can’t really afford to buy none of that expensive lube or anything right now.

Answer #5

dont use vaseline it will make the condom break. theres places you can go to to get free lube. planed parent hood

Answer #6

How can it make the condom break? Just curios? I don’t see how rubbing a little on it will break it.

Answer #7

Vaseline compromises the strength of the latex…that’s why it shouldn’t be used….any oil based product made with petrolatum is a big no-no.

Answer #8

oh ok thanks colleen, I have a big issue! I know this is very off topic of my question, but I can’t ask it anywhere else. Everytime I click on the questions tab, or the update tab, or try to go to someone’s profile, an ad pops up for cell top or something. I can’t do anything! I have no idea what is going on! I can’t ask questions or anything!!!

Answer #9

vasoline is patroleume so friction builds up causing the condom to break

Answer #10

It’s a spammer - he messed up the code somehow…it’s been reported and we’re just waiting on a programmer.

Answer #11

oh ok, It was frustrating, everything I click on sent me to that. It’s horrible. =[ I hope it gets fixed soon. I didn’t know what was going on, I thought the website was messed up or something. lol.

Answer #12

Seems fixed now…that wasn’t pleasant.

Answer #13

YAY! haha, how did that even happen? I don’t understand how someone could do that?

Answer #14

I was some code he inputted into his description….I saw the code first, then the site changed….I hope the programmers can put some block on that happening again.

Answer #15

you might be allergic to the condom..i know i can’t use condoms no matter how much lube i put on them..it’s agitates me too much…so i dont use them at all..but i would advise you to get put on Birth Control before you take the risk in not using them..lol

Answer #16

Yea, I hope so, that is ridiculous. Gah, some people! lol

Answer #17

Thanks for your answer, but I don’t think I am allergic to them, they don’t make me itch or sore or anything after sex. It’s just when doing it, it feels scratchy. When not used it feels smooth and better.

Answer #18

hes a creep :L

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Answer #19

will a lot of spit work? I really would rather use something from home instead of having to buy it or make a trip out. I can’t afford things like that right now, and I have no clue where any type of clinic is. I doubt they would continuously give it to me anyway. Places around here are horrible. Doctors are @$$holes, hospitals suck, etc.

Answer #20

OMG! It’s doing it again!! WTF!?!! AGAIN!?!?!

Answer #21

This is pure BS!!! >=[

Answer #22

The place that gives away free condoms here where I live don’t give lube. =[ What do I do?

Answer #23

ull just have to buy some :/ its bout all you can do :/

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Answer #24

yeah..well they do that to me too..lol

Answer #25

Ahh, thanks. I convinced my mom to buy me some. We found some at wal-mart for like $1.87 a tube. It’s water based. YAY! lol.

Answer #26

kool :D have fun ;)

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Answer #27

LOL, thanks.

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