is it bad to lose your virginity if me and her are both Christians!!!??? please answer!!!
if you love her, and you feel your respondsible enough...and you use proper precautions to prevent pregnancy... then I dont see why not.
some people may argue that staying virgins until marriage stregnthens the bonds, and makes their marriage just that much better and close... good for them.
but sometimes thats not for everybody.
your not going to go to hell for having sex. a sin is something that is wrong... reality is in the eyes of the beholder. if in your heart, you believe its wrong... dont do it. but if you truely believe its okay, then go for it.
Me..., I didnt wait. I was young when I lost my virginity... 15 years old... but I was with my boyfriend from age 13-18, so it was a serious relationship.. and I dont regret it. I lost it to my first love, and its something I can live with without regrets.
...after a couple years in college... and after getting out and "expierencing" different people and things... I just dont know... im in a serious relationship now, with a very fufulling sex life... and I dont regret it one bit... I really love the guy im with... BUT, if we were to god forbid break up... the next relationship im in, im going to wait longer before having sex with them... atleast 6 months... waiting really does add a good tension and it also allows you to grow together without the distraction of sex... but sex can also be a wonderful way to grow together. it all depends.
just remember... you cant take it back... Although I do not regret sleeping with my current boyfriend... it would've been nice to have something to look forward to after marriage with him... it would've made marriage just that much more special... we've been sleeping together for a few years now, and honestly... after marriage... the only thing that will change between us is that we'll be living together.
just think it out...
theres no reason to not enjoy yourself... possibly... try doing "other" things then having sex... it might work out to only go half-way, and save the rest until marriage... its all up to you.
I love jesus... and in my heart, I do not believe what im doing is wrong. christianity is all about having a relationship with god. ...does YOUR god TELL YOU this is wrong? or do your priest/parents/whoever tell you it is? some may argue that god speaks through the bible... whatever. my jesus speaks through my heart, to ME.
listen to your heart... listen to YOUR god in your heart (not what people tell you)... and most importantly... follow your heart!
best wishes
I would advice you not to or atlest be sure you can be protected because having sex is a really big step in the realtionship and aslong as your happy good doesnt punish love and god made a man and a women to feel pleasure so why miss out on one of the best things god made!!
Fledmn that response was a little rude especially to me because I'm Christian and religious. If you want to put answers down like please Fun Mail the person. Don't get mad! I just read it and felt a little offended. I would appreciate it. Thanks!
haha fleedmn love your answer lmao but im a jew and seriously, if you go back to the roots of your religion (judaism) there is no heaven. no hell. Do w.e the f*ck you want lol no pun intended
if you're christian AND it is your beliefs, then yes.
but then again god forgives everyone.
yeah.your suppost to waite till your married.
It is a sin to have premarital sex.
but really how many people waite.
f*ck her, then pray.
