Selfish Mom../:

Tell her the reasons you want to stay with your father, and that if she can’t accept it, you’re sorry, but it’s your life, and you need to move on. Just because she didn’t have a wonderful relationship with your dad doesn’t mean you won’t, and she has no right to stop you from seeing him. Tell her that your leaving doesn’t mean you love her any less, you just see a better opportunity with your father. Make sure you call her everyday, though, and tell her that you love her, even if she doesn’t say the same. She might just be upset that you chose him over her, and it’s important to remind her that that’s not the case. Hope this helps! ;D

Fro a 16 year old girl whos mom died when I was 9, I can see how difficult your situation must be. I cant give you much advice but always remind her and constantly how much you love her and how thankful you are to have her in your life. Maybe she’ll ease off a bit. And I think she might be jealous that you want to spent time with your dad and she just might be lonley. I miss my mom so much! and I would do anything to have her back.. And remember, you never know what you have till its gone. So live life with less worrys ;) Good luck sweetie! I wish you the best!

sure she is going to be upset and will cry! after all she have been with you ages…I am a mom and I can feel her emotions… well its your choice though and maybe you are bug enough to make your own choice but you also have to think that she has always been right there for you and now when you are older rtaher than be there for her you are chosing the other parent…so sure she is going to be upset about it, she would have dream about you when you will be old wnough then you both will be enjoying having fun watch tele shop go here and there together share feelings like friends! but now she is feeling down cause you wont be there for her!

I wish you a luck…but maybe you should not go with your father forever cause your mom loves you more than anything according to your statement