Why won't she let me touch her like that?

ok so I was in my gfs car and we were makin out and kinda havein dry s*x and I sat up and put my hand on her vagina and she said hands off and I was like why its nuthin its so stupid and then I leaned in and kissed her and then she looked away and said its not even been a month. I don’t know what I should say or do when it happens cause I really really really like her and I want to beable to do that

Answer #1

Well maybe she isnt ready for that commitment or maybe she is just testing your patients. Seeing how much you really care for her or if yur just with her to get in her pants maybe .. (:

Answer #2

She may not be ready for that my boyfriend did the same thing then when one of his friends told him then he understod why I did feel comfortable he waited and still is he loves kissin me it’s meaningful he looks forward 2 get further

Answer #3

She might not be ready to go there. Girls are really nervous about having other people seeing their bodies because it makes us feel like they are judging our bodies against others. The media isn’t good to us in those terms. Also, girls are really squeemish around that time of the month.

Answer #4

if she isint ready dont push her just respect her fellings. when she is ready you will know no offens but sometimes guys get in over there heads but i would talk to your gf so u can understand her boundries

Answer #5

dude, if she doesn’t want you to touch her private parts, don’t do it. what’s so hard to understand about that.

do you want someone messing with your treasured stuff? (i don’t mean your little thingy)

Answer #6

She is defentely not ready for u to go that far yet. Just be patient she will come around. I was kinda like that. I was just really nervous. That might be what is up too. And she might not be ready. Just keep it simple in the mean time. Just mean all the kisses you give her. Tell her u did not mean to make her uncomfortable. Tell her to whisper in ur ear when u guys are kissing when she is ready. Your patience will make u unresistable. good luck.

Answer #7

hon listen very closely or in this case read very closely- ur girlfriend is a girl and most girls like 2 wait 4 a little while before they get tht close and don’t take it as a problem take it as somehting 2 look forward 2 as like a showing of commitment wait let her see that you are not jus in it for the sex and take it from a girl who felt the same way ur gf probably does… jus some advice from someone who wanted that.

good luck

-hailey

Answer #8

WAIT you inpatien man.(lol)

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