Save a troubled relationship?

you’re not the only one, dont worry. I was with my ex for 16 months… after 8 months it started going downhill, but we stuck it out until we finally realised that it wasn’t going to work, so we broke it off.

But throughout those 8 months after the initial 8, it hurt, im sure he felt it too, the pressure from school, the busy schedules that comes with being a teenager, barely getting any time with each other, we couldnt enjoy the time we had together. We tried to talk it out and we’d always think that “yes its finally sorted” but we would end up having the same discussion a month down the track. It’ll take time to REALLY work it out, get past it together. Talk to him about it when you can, but don’t dwell on it, enjoy all the time you can have together instead of the bad times.

They’ll act like they lose interest, but the thing with guys is, they’ll never lose interest, you might feel they do, but from what I’ve seen, they just have the more urgent and pressing needs bothering them, but I don’t think your guy is losing interest in you.

Stick it out, work with him, and most importantly, from experience, try not to make it about you, make it about the relationship. because it really gets the guy down when that happens, and it puts even more strain on the relationship

I’m not sure if this helped, but I hope it has :) Best of Luck