What rights should bf/gfs have in a relationship?

Let me explain.. the other day i went to use his visor mirror in his car and saw some chick’s initials written with her lipstick. A month ago, that wasn’t there. I asked him about it and he said he doesn’t talk to her, she’s psycho, etc. and that he talked to her before us. But that lipstick seriously wasn’t there a month ago! I want to talk to her about it, but I think he’ll get mad and say I don’t trust him.. so I don’t kno what to do. He’s leaving saturday for two weeks and it’s killing me.. i need to know now.. thanks for answering btw.. I’m really desperate.

Well if you saw something like that then he should know of course you’ll be suspicious. If you have a huge feeling something did happen and he keeps denying it then I say confront the girl about it. Try to get the truth if it bothers you that much. I mean how would she have written the initials there without getting in his car?

That’s what I’m thinking. He said ‘’Are you sure you didn’t see it there last time?” like maybe I didn’t remember it being there. But I’m positive it wasn’t there before. How should I tell him I want to talk to the girl? I feel like he’ll say ‘’What, you don’t believe me?’’ etc…

Explain to him how it’s bothering the heck outta you and that you want to trust him but at the same time you want to make sure and get the stress off you. He’ll be pissed probably but you gotta do what you gotta do sometimes.

I know.. I’m scared. lol. I’m scared that it’s true. thank you.

No problem. I hope everything works out!