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Revenge

I have a brother- who is super annoying. And I need 2 give him payback for kicking me in the knee the other night and then lying to mum and dad that I kicked him and it really hurts- when I never even kicked him- sounds childish? Yeah I know, please give me some ideas they have to be done ‘accidentialy’ (aka on purpose) but no one must figure that out. (also he gives revenge on me when I by accident slamed the fridge door into this leg and then he pushed me into the cupboard door with dad watching him)

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Answer #1

did he apologize? what was his motive? revenge is wrong. “two wrongs don’t make a right.” im sure your brother loves you very much and maybe that is why you find what he does annoying, b/c you care about him, and maybe he does what he does because he cares about you. one thing is, there is nothing stronger than the bond between a pair of brother and sister because “brosis”, a word I made up a while back, is awesome, so do the opposite of revenge.

Answer #2

Yes, it is childish. Why are you playing his game? You should have just told your parents what actually happened. Even though you didn’t mention it, I’m pretty sure you’re the older sibling. Parents would believe the older child because you are supposed to be the more responsible and mature of the lot. Show your parents your bruise. Get your parents to check his ‘bruise’ - they will know if he’s lying.

If him kicking you didn’t come up with any bruise, then you shouldn’t really whinge too much about it. He’s your little brother and he will always mess with you. Be the ‘bigger’ person here and ignore your brother. If you make a big deal about him tormenting you and your parents don’t believe you, he will only just continue doing it out of fun.

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