Relationship bad habits

ok, so basically what you’re saying is you have a fear of intimacy or commitment? is there a reason you freak out? do you think they’re going to leave? or if you get too close you won’t be able to stand it if they do leave? maybe if you figure out why you freak out (sit down one day and actually analyze the panic you feel, there’s thoughts running through your head, you need to figure out what those thought are) then maybe you can start to rationalize through them. You dont know that you’re going to break up with the person you’re dating. And you need to realize that people come and go. But that doesnt mean you shouldnt let them in. It will not be the end of the world if they leave… You will be able to survive it…

You are 15. It is natural to like a boy one day and a different one the next. At your age you have no idea who you are or what you want to be yet so why should you be able to tell what you want in a guy yet? Don’t get me wrong, this is not a bad thing. It is normal. It is also normal for teenagers to have “commitment issues”. You are just getting started in life, shy should you settle for any one thing now, whether it be a boyfriend or a clothing style. This is the time of your life to have fun and figure out who you are. Enjoy it!

That was when I was about 7!! that guys come and go and when I don’t like a boy for a day… I had a bad childhood that aff ected me with my social life even in my friendships now I tend to hate the person for months but its a good thing I sorted that out w/ 1 of my friends which is now my best friend! :D but I’ve known what im looking for in a guy even my parents tell me who I should be w/ that I guess made me very picky in a relationships thats why I think of the bad details of my boyfriend rather than the good 1:(