I am 18 and my boyfriend, Jay, wants to have sex ! Im not sure if I am ready for this. Will it hurt when his penis is inserted into my vagina? I really hate pain !! I dont want to disappoint Jay, I wan to please him. Btw I am still a virgin. Any advice?
Don't do it because you feel like you should.. Don't do it for him, do it when you feel ready and when you feel that you're ready for it. I suggest you get on birth control (it takes at least 3 weeks for it to start working) and PLEASE use condoms as well. You can both also go to planned parenthood and get tested for STDs. My boyfriend and I did all 3 of these things before we became sexually active. How long have you been with this guy? The guy that you lose your virginity to should be someone special :) You'll remember this experience for the rest of your life. Just make sure that you're safe from pregnancy and any STDs.
The first time it will probably hurt. It definitely hurt for me, and it took a while for it to stop hurting. But after that, it will feel natural.
Thanks a lot :)