My husband love s&m and ive read fiftty shades of gray and i want to try it,but my thing is i have very low pain level.So my question is how can i get my self to not be afraid of pain for s&m,i really want to try it for my husband and for me. PLEASE HELP!!!!!
Well Jodi, welcome to the world of S&M !! You have asked a very basic yet very important question, I have seen many people do not get correct answer then rather than feel the bliss they get afraid and never try out !!
You can start out slowly and some beginner's stuff having safety word for him to stop so he does not continue to give u more pain !!
start exploring the S&M world, slowly but steadily; it will not only increase your pain but also will let u enjoy the pain in the form of pleasure !!
Hope this clarifies your doubts, but in case you need more clarification, please do not hesitate to ask me here or on funmail !!
You should not be doing it because you've read about it, if you have a predeliction with that type of sex you will instinctively endure more pain than you think you can because of the obvious link between pleasure and pain. Just don't be a phoney about it.
In my opinion, it is completely different when you are doing it for pleasure. Just think of it as pleasure and not pain.