Punishment for porn

My 16 year old son has been told a couple of times over the past year or two that he is not allowed to go to porn sites on the computer because I do not think its appropriate. I do understand that he is curious but looking at naked women is totally different than watching close up full streaming videa. I noticed this morning that he was on two of those sites last night and obviously forgot to clear the history on the computer. what do you think an appropriate punishment would be. he plays counter strike every night for hours and I’m thinking of banning him from that but now sure for how long. thoughts?

Answer #1

Cheers, good luck to your kids, knowing every little detail of their life ;)

Answer #2

ok I liked your answer other than the first line…that was mature…not So if he wants to have sex too I should just let him do it in his own bed in my house because if I don’t he’ll just do it somewhere else? Paleeese

Answer #3

I just don’t get why you’re butting into his sex life. None of your business I would say. Boys will be boys. And yes I’d expect him to be having sex at his age, better in his own bed than god knows where.

Answer #4

I would ban him from computer. But either way he will still look at porn after his punishment or find away around the punishment either way he is still gonna be a teenager and look at porn sorry

Answer #5

well its normal for a teenage guy to look at that stuff. like seriouslyy I dont think you should punish him because hell still watch itt.

Answer #6

~ 1 week 0 computer use ~ an essay about how women are exploited by the porn industry and how it makes the majority of us feel ~ volunteering at the local hot meals program or convalescent care facility

It will expand his horizons. He may already be addicted and needs productive distraction. Keep him occupied with ^service^ to others. He’ll really find renewed respect for himself as well as members of the opposite sex.

Remind him that you are doing this out of love and concern, that this is the consequence of his disobeying your directives.

Answer #7

OH MY GOD I KNOW THE PERFECT PUNISHMENT!!! I’m not any older than your son but maybe if you show him the consequences of porn. since he’s curious about sex he really should learn all of the things that come with it. such as getting a woman pregnant and having to take part in the baby’s care. child support. gonariah (sp.) aids, syphylis, herpes. etc. I know this will help. I have a good feeling about this. ok? you really should try it.

let me know how effective it is okay? :D

Answer #8

Why don’t you just castrate him and be done with it. Porn wont be addictive to him as long as you have brought him up properly. If he has serious personality flaws then maybe so. It is your job to educate him about those kinds of things, let him know it doesn’t reflect reality, but to stifle his desire to watch it will only repress his urges. I’d say it’s perfectly fine to watch a bit of porn. It’s normal, and the fact of the matter is you can’t stop him. He will just seek it out elsewhere.

Answer #9

I don’t have a problem with his curiosity but some of those porn sites are extrememly hard core and it does give kids the impression that that is what all sex is,and should be like which is not the case. Porn is also addictive and as a mother (who admits to having watched porn herself) I just don’t think I should just turn a blind eye. He knows those are the rules and there is a reason those sites say 18+

Answer #10

I agree with thaddyboy.

Answer #11

Good luck with YOUR kids slavaim!

Answer #12

Thank you ethvh, my comment above was not for you it was for slavaim. I appreciate your answer.

Answer #13

I dont think you should punish him one bit, and hes not curiose at the age of 16 maybe at age of 12 or 10 but a 16 year old aint going to be curiose I would have thought. im 13 and I get every thing about porn. and might be unhappy to now that hes most proberly masturating, also a normal thing for a teenager to do. I say that you lave him to his privicy. unless its afecting you or if hes picking up viruses from it.

Answer #14

teaching him about std will probably keep him off porn for a week two weeks tops he probably already knows anyways

Answer #15

wow I play counter strike all night to im addicted to porn and im going to church im trying to get over my addiction its hard ull need to help him hes addicted and its hard to stop porns like a drug when you get on it its hard to get off of it

Answer #16

im actually a year younger than your son.im 15 but like I know how guys are . like have a talk with him about not having sex but like you cant always punish himfor watching porn

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