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Problems at home, please help.

uh…well I’m having trouble at home. it’s a very complicated story so I’ll just skip to the main issue, I HATE my mother’s guts and I dislike livng with her I would love to live with my dad where I think I’m loved (they’re divorced). if I live with my dad I’ll be happy at home but miserable at school because it’s zoned for a diferent school, if I stay with my mother I’m MISERABLE at home but happy at school because my friends understand me and love me. What do I do? I need some unbiased advice here from someone who doesn’t know me…

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Answer #1

I remember when I was in school and at times I didnt want to go home because I wasnt living with my mom and even though I was loved at home I always felt that I needed more attention…well the thing that got me through was my daily motto I kept telling myself that “it would be long but not forever”…find something that will occupy your time at home and hopefully take your mind off your mom, for example drawing,rapping etc…Soon u’ll be out of school then it would be a good time to move in with your dad and get a fresh start and trust me you cant never be too weird to make new friends…

Answer #2

if your friends love and understand you know then they always will and youll still have them but a happy home is more important. Youll make a new life at your fathers home you know to start fresh even it could be scary at a new school but still you never know it could be just fine.

Answer #3

You’ll have to use your best judgement on this - keep in mind parents aren’t perfect, like you they have strengths and weaknesses…but they try to do their best looking after your best interests - just keep a good positive attitude and if needed, look in the mirror and ask, what do I need to do to make things better…I wish you the best !!

Answer #4

u should live with your dad…if he doesnt live to far from your mother you can do an interdistrict transfer and still go to your school. but hey you can always make new friends :)

Answer #5

you wont be misserablee.

youl lfind new friends and youll be happy at home too,

not all people are jerks (:

I thiink you shud live with your dad.

but its still your choicee

Answer #6

I’m way too weird…I have mega trouble making new friends because of it…

Answer #7

I think if your gonna be happy wit your dad then live wit him!! ull make new frends

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