Pretty Crazy Situation I need Help with

So there is this guy he lived about 4 hours away. His grandparents live in the same town I do. Every time he would come down we would always hook up. We never got as far as sex but have always had the biggest attraction..

My boyfriend (A different guy) came into my life and I stopped talking to the other one. Recently my boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me.

Within the next week the guy that lived 4 hours away moved to town with his grandparents! So here I am thinking awesome I don’t have to go through a heartbreak now because I’ve got a rebound. I went by to see him and I took my cousin with me. Now my cousin is a gorgeous girl. She has a cute body, a beautiful face and long hair. I introduced them and everything. He later that night sent me a myspace message telling me that he thought she was hott… Now of course I didn’t think anything of it because she is. My cousin was hooking up with his best friend at the time.

WELL we all got together and partied and what not and one thing lead to another and we started having sex. Now he was very wasted but I was not. We were into it and out of no where he tells me “Why don’t you go and call your cousin” Extremely Pissed I get off (I was on top LOL) and put my clothes on and was trying to leave. He tries to stop me telling me that he’s drunk and stupid and all that. Well I’m in the bathroom fixing my make-up and he’s in there telling me he is drunk and doesn’t really know what was going on.

Still in the back of my head I’m thinking when you are drunk that is when you are most honest. The real person comes out. So he is apologizing and I say I forgive him… We stayed the night there because we were all pretty faded and I stayed up all night talking. He eventually passed out on the bed and I went and talked to the other people that were there.

I decided that once he sobered up in the morning I would go and try again with him cause I Really wanted to see what it was like you know? Well come morning I go in and we start at it. after not even 60 seconds he cums. so I tell him oh thats okay LOL keep going so then 30 seconds later he cums AGAIN! Extremely pissed I get up and walk out again not satisfied.

Now It made me miss my ex boyfriend EVEN more because he would ALWAYS please me… So Just your opinion on the Situation and what you think I should do.. Sorry the story was so long :)

Answer #1

ok well are you and your ex still friends, cause you could try to create another relationship with him and start over

Answer #2

what the f*ck it wrote it twice???

Answer #3

Thanks to all!

Answer #4

It’s actually a proven fact that while either sober or intoxicated, men don’t have much time to well, you know, please the girl before he c*ms

Answer #5

It’s actually a proven fact that while either sober or intoxicated, men don’t have much time to well, you know, please the girl before he c*ms

Answer #6

in a way it sounds like hes using you and your also using him I dont think both of you really love each other or havve talked about your feelings/problems/ relationship you cant change the past, so theres no use wonderring what could have been with your ex he cant help it if he likes the way your cousin looks and it shouldnt be something to get mad ad…you introduced them ..id say just talk to thios guy about how you really feel because right now it doesnt sound like either of you are getting anywere

Answer #7

The only attraction you have for each other is nothing more than a sexual one. Everytime he would come down you two would always hook up. Whether you’re a teenager, or an adult, sex wont make someone fall for you in the right way, OR commit to you. Hes getting it all for nothing, so theres no need to be in a relationship. Guys like the chase. Girls who are too easy, arent worth investing their time on. You are just someone to have fun with, not to actually get serious with.

Falling out of one relationship straight into another is usually a recipe for disaster. You need to give yourself time to process your emotions and deal with what went wrong before being consumed by a new rebound relationship. When you go through a break up it can be tempting to run into the arms of the first person you see just to feel wanted and loved again. However if you don’t give yourself time to heal you may find the cycle repeating itself.

Before you find a new partner discover what makes you happy. Start a new hobby or spend time with your friends. Having your own life will make you much more desirable and make you much happier in your next relationship.

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