pregnat and now what?

I believe I am pregnat (I havnt taken a test and I wont be able to for about two weeks but every single symtom points to pregnacy)

most of my friends are very much against abortion and so am I and so is my boyfriend (we both actually wanted a baby very badly we just wanted to wait for a year and a half) but my friend told me today that I should get an abortion so I got a little worried. I always hated the idea of an abortion and I believe I can handle this but I just wanted a second opinion.

also any ideas on how to let the parents know? We plan to tell them it happened in a hot tub and involved no intercourse because the last thing we need is the stress of someone pressing charges on my boyfriend. well I just wanted some opinions on this situation and also I know we made a mistake on letting this happen but I see it as it happened and I cant change that now and I already love this baby with all my heart and so does he, he said he would do anything to protect me and this baby.

thanks for the advice :D

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Answer #1

please dont kill your baby by an abortion.. unless it is 18 days old but I mean even that is cruel. it sounds like you really want your child.. I have a very close friend that had to get an abortion and if you are less than a month, they give you a shot and give you two pills that you put in each side in your mouth and then you have a period and like bleed body parts out of you… its true.. no lie! the right thing to do is to tell your parents.. but if you want, you could wait it out until you start showing signs of being pregnant.. another thing, how old are you?? if you are young, your parentz are probably going to ground you for a long time but I mean hell, you have 9 months!! lol well good luck on decideing what to do and onother thing.. when you have a baby, it feels like you are stretching your bottom lip all the way to the bottom of your feet… well that is what it feels like… well, hope I helped[=

Answer #2

First of all its pregnant, not “pregnat”, and second, its not a mistake when your here asking questions like this>> **Me and my boyfriend were fooling around and he tried to push it in and it hurt…a lot I nearly screamed aand told him to stop

I am a virgin and my cherry did not pop he was only pushing agaisnt it it never actually went in but it hurt a lot and there was blood on my underwear about half an hour later

What should we do? I am very very very tight and I dont know how to make this easier

Thanks for the advice :d** >>You were MORE concerned about being tight, than using protection, so I dont know how you can call it a “mistake”.

We plan to tell them it happened in a hot tub and involved no intercourse>>I really highly doubt conception took place in a hot tub without penetration, and I hope thats not the story you are going to give them! Why dont you tell the truth Hun, because your age is really starting to show. Its statutory rape no matter how you look at it!!

I knew that hypotheticalquestion you asked was for a reason!

Answer #3

Only you can decide what you really want to do, if you are in fact pregnant. If it’s been 3 days or less since you’ve had unprotected sex, though, I HIGHLY recommend that you get the morning after pill. For it to be effective, though, you have to hurry. So talk to your mom about it and go to the doctor. She will be angry, but you have your whole life ahead of you and your parents will love you no matter what. You are only 14! Think about this.. There is no way you or your boyfriend can financially support a child right now.

Read about the morning after pill: http://www.planb.ca/

Lying to your parents about how you got pregnant will most likely not work. It’s not a wise idea, and they KNOW better. So don’t do it. Be honest. Let them help you.

Answer #4

Keep the baby, it sounds like yall really want it. Yall knew the consequences, so yall dont deserve abortion. (I think only women who got raped can do that ,but anyways.)

Remember the baby has a heartbeat in 18 days, so if yall do decide to get an abortion, get it less than 18 days, cause really it was never living, (but it is still cruel.)

Telling your parents is hard, just know no matter what they will love you and the baby no matter what. It would be nice if you could tell them the truth, but if you feel they will press charges then dont, cause stress on you will bring stress to the baby…

hoped I helped. if any other qquestions funmail me. :)

Answer #5

how cud you get pregnant in a hottub without having sex. they wont buy it. just dont get an abortion. dont kill yur child. its only a year and a half. tel yur parents the truth. they love you and they will support u. my sister is pregnant and when my parents first foundout they threaned to kill the father. lol. but then they both realized how f*cked up they were being and they cam to their senses.

Answer #6

thank you so much for all your guys help…I think we will tell them the truth and not do an abortion :D