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13 and pregnant, what should I do?

I turned 13 two weeks ago ! and I am pregnant

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Answer #1

wow , well personally this is not a good thing you are a young lady and still have a lot to do in lifee , I am assuming you will be going into highschool next year ; and this is not good becausse eventually you are going to have to drop out and loose an education , having a baby is a HUGE responcibility ,and a 13 yr old girl is not ready for something like this , I would talk to your mom and comee up with some options , like of you decide to have the baby you can give it up for adoption , and this way it can live a life with someone who can provide for it , and maybee the last option would be an abortion as bad as a abortion is , it would be helping the baby out cause you dont wanna bring it into the world and not be able to provide for it , and bring only 13 you wont have a job so you wont be able to buy every thing that the young child id going to need ! parents with a steady job even have a hard timee buying everything they need for the baby because its soo expensive !

good luck and please make the right decision !xoxo

Answer #2

I was pregnant at 13 too .. I sadly misscarried at3 months without telling my mum or anything, you need to talk to someone darling, its not going to be easy keeping it to yourself xx

Answer #3

maybe you should have listened to your parents and kept your pants on until you were actually old enough to have sex…

Answer #4

You need to tell your parents, so that you and your baby can get proper health care, since your body isn’t properly developed and ready for birth yet, there would be NO way of not telling them, plus they’ll start noticing after a while.

Answer #5

Wow thats young I got pregnant at 16! am 19 now

Good luck it going to be hard for you

Answer #6

hey wow thats not goood! what you rele need to do is talk to your parents about it and decide if you wanna get rid of it or not because having a kid at your age will be a HUGE responsiblity so maybe it would b a good idea to get rid of it bt its your deision just dont let anyone pressure you into doing anything you dont want to do! xxx

Answer #7

tell your parents sweetie and have an abortion or an adoption

Answer #8

Abortion!!! sry if you don’t like that…but that’s the only advice I can give… o and that you shouldn’t even be having sex at that age… I know some things just happen and people get caught up in things and are in the moment and what not… but yeah. that totally sucks.

Answer #9

What is she ^^^ talkinq about?? Fau is for anonymous people -_- Wowserss. Um omq sweety, that’s Not cool, its a terrible situation to be qoinq throuqh @ aqe 13, yur in 8th or 9th qrade, its hard takinq care a a baby & qoinq to school. But yu can do it. Does yur mom know? If she doesn’t jes tell her, & she miqht blow, but don’t worry. Some parents kick dher kids out of the house, if so live with yur boyfriend, hope I helped, fun mail me if yu need someone @ any time :-\

Answer #10

don’t listen to this retarted people…u will go 2 hell 4 that I know this will be hard for you but its also a life you have inside you you got to think bout that baby too nt just yourself I know you young bt you need to face up for what you did it will be scary bt god will be their for you or you could also just put the baby for adoption bt don’t abort tha baby its a life too…you should go to church and ask god to guide you…fun mail meeh

Answer #11

Youre body may not be ready…How far along are you?

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