Pregnant 15 year old

Okk, well… My 15 year old friend is pregnant, her parents kicked her out of their house, now shes living with me, she doesnt know what she should do with the child but shes notnotnotnotnotnot having an abortion, and she always asks me what I think but I never know what to say and its just getting closer and closer. So what would you say in this situation??

Answer #1

well if she still wants to be part of the baby’s life open adoption is good and all so she could just keep the kid you know be responsible

Answer #2

well, she needs to talk to her baby daddy about getting a job and everything what your baby needs..or if she doesnt feel ready to take care of her baby then put her baby up for adoption as long as she want to her baby to have a good life

Answer #3

well, she shuld speak to her parents alone, explain to them did she want to get pregnant, 15 years. old, that young…

Answer #4

One dont listen to this indemguts person there just trying to cause trouble for everyone and dont know what its like to go threw it and think of it this way at least your friend can get someone unlike this chick!

anyways my friend went threw it to so my advice to you is talk to a doctor and see what your options are, I can definatly understand not getting an abortion.

You should really talk to a doctor or somone who has been threw it and see what your options are! I hope your friend makes the rite decission in the end =]

Answer #5

She is only 15 years old, legally her parents can not kick her out and she can talk to Child Protective Services or the police in this situation. You can NOT kick a minor out of your house.

She sounds very uncertain about keeping the child. I would tell her to start calling some adoption agencies and setting up an adoption through one of them. It can be very hard, but you are being a great friend and helping her out. Talk to her parents, if they still say she can’t come home - get in touch with the police and have them call Child Protective Services. No parents should kick their child out when they need them the most.

Answer #6

If she isn’t sure, I’d suggest open adoption. That way, she can still see her child and be a part of his/her life. Not all agencies offer that kind of adoption, plus there has to be a family that is willing to do so. Plus, at some point, it is possible to adopt the child back. I don’t know what this is called, but it is an option sometimes.

And to the person above me-sometimes it’s more responsible to give the child to a stable, loving home. Some parents (I know nothing about the girl in question) simply aren’t ready, so it may be better for everyone involved to give the child for adoption.

Answer #7

so ya weird

Answer #8

get her to speak with a doctor, and any one else with adviuse and information on pregnancy theres a lot of things a baby requires and needs to have as well as all the costs involved and shell need to be bale to provide for it it also wouldnt hurt to talk, ring, email, ect her parents and get them to takle to her she should say something ike “look, im your daughter, I may be pregnant but that doesnt make me any less of a human being. im going to have this baby, and im going to do it with or without your support. but id love it if you could at least offer me some advise and help about pregnancy and how to care for my baby”

Answer #9

Well my advice about this is that you talk to your parents-hey I’m in the same position I’m 15 and nearly 6weeks pregnant-my advice is that make sure you think about this your carrying a something that deserves the chance to live so even if you fin or hard to look after it then I’d advise you think of adoption co the child could still live a happy life-don’t worry I’m in this stage an it’s frightenin I know-I also you advise talk to the dad of your baby he should help Goodluck x

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