Pleasuring tips!

ok the thing about masterbation especially in women is that its not an imediate thing it has to build up, you cant just decide to go and masterbate, you need to be aroused first you need to discover what it is that pleases you sexually, where do you like to be touched do you like a soft tickly stroke accross the skin or a firmer grip. some women like their breasts stroked, kissed licked or sucked, others hate them being touched at all. You have to work out what it is that gets you in the mood it could be anything from reading a romantic novel to watching pornography that coupled with the right strokes should get you aroused enough to masterbate.

so I would sujest taking the time to explore your own body with different types of touch as well as thinking about how you wish to be treated as a partner when the time comes. loosing your virginity is a big thing and shouldnt be just given away.. dont give into peer presure to have sex e.g I wont like you if you dont have sex with me.. loosing your virginity should be your decision and with the person you choose for the right reasons, sexual intercourse is an extreamly intimate act and is not a toy when you find the right person making love to them will highten the sexual experience as it will bring you closer together as a couple (thats right one nighters are naff and usually have nasty consiquences e.g reputation for being easy, STI, pregnancy)

once you have dicovered what it is that turns you on and how you like to be touched, dont rush your self take the time to relax and unwind and enjoy the experience so a trying to masterbate in the bathroom with your brother next door is not conducive to having a good time.

some women find that when they are aroused and have produced enough lubrication that they can start to play with the clitoris, if you find your clitoris to be overly sensative rub the hood of the clitoris instead if your not sure what im refering to have a look at your self in the mirror.

you may find it more pleasing to have something in your vagina at the same time like a dildo or vibrator. if using a vibrator and dildo combanation like the rampant rabbit from ann summers keep the vibration on a low setting and build the sensation. when you do finally reach climax (you will know when it happens its like an erruption of energy from your groin up your body, your vagina may also twitch afterwards) relax, take a nap and lavish in you enjoyment..

if you do decided to have sexual intercourse with a partner please make sure you are on some form of contraception like the pill or the injection and use a condom at the same time the condom not only stops pregnancy but also sexually transmitted ilness or STI where as the pill or injection will only stop pregnancy … most methods of contraception are only 98% proof so always use both for you and your parnters health and sanity (trust me on the sanity).