I caught my boyfriend chatting with girls on the internet

I forgot to mention that I caught my boyfriend chatting with girls on the internet. I know it seems to be not a big mistake to the ones who reads this, but our love is different because he has told me & promised me earlier,that he won’t do those things. He also never allowed me to chat with guys on the internet. So I agreed to that & because I also don’t like to let him to chat with girls. I was so happy about that because I knew he’s different & he loved me a lot. That’s why I still love him this much. But at once when he changed how can I take it? How can I make up my mind?I feel that he’s trying to ignore me,but sometimes he says that he truly loves me. So I don’t know what to do?I can’t forget him & I don’t want to forget him. I just want to change the way now he is & tell him that he’s wrong. But I tried my best to tell him & asked him to change but he didn’t listen to me.I talked to him without any anger but nothing happened. I don’t know what else to do?now I can’t even work at office, I can’t sleep, I can’t do anything.im so sad about my life & always im thinking a way to die.im scared to loose him.pls help me. I don’t know how to tell him???

Answer #1

The reason why its like this is because you’re relationship was so strict and he just wants to be free. That’s ridiculous that he cant talk to girls and you can talk to boys. If you don’t trust each other than you shouldn’t be dating, period.

Answer #2

A relationship is about respect, trust and communication, not where one controls the other. This relationship is unhealthy, and it is very immature, Kind of like middle school dating. Usually one of the biggest reasons for disappointment in a relationship is having expectations of others; as though people have to meet what you expect of them. Its like your trying to change him to fit your idea of what a perfect boyfriend should be. Not all relationships are for a lifetime. Its how you sort out who is and isn’t right in your life. But when you’re lacking self worth and don’t know who and what you are, YOU’LL TAKE ALMOST ANYTHING. Which is the biggest problem in relationships.

Answer #3

I don’t want to sound rude but it doesn’t sound like you’re in a healthy relationship. Your boyfriend should trust you enough to let you talk to other guys… it’s not as if you planned on doing anything bad like cheating on him.

Don’t think of ways to die! I was in that position a year ago and I can understnad what you’re feeling. You’ve been very selfless for your boyfriend and maybe now you should be putting yourself first

Personally I don’t think it’s that big a deal if he does talk to other girls online. Why don’t you like it when he talks to other girls? Maybe you need to have a serious chat with him about how BOTH of you feel.


Answer #4

if you have faith on your boyfreind…dont think about that idiotic things got it

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