Some tips to make our bond better

Hun, you cant make anyone love you. First off, this was an on again, off again relationship which is unhealthy, and unstable to begin with. That had nothing to do with the death of his brother. Second, he doesnt love you. Why are you so desperate to make this relationship work? It takes TWO people to make a relationship, not one person putting forth all the effort. You have to face the fact that this relationship has come to an end, but its not the end of the world. You will recover, and you will love again, but you have to realize that its over. Not all relationships are for a lifetime.

If the death of his brother was pretty recent then he probably just still going through the different stages of losing someone close. Try and sitting down and talking to him about what has been going on. If he doesn’t want to do that he just may need some space for a bit (I’m not saying to leave him at all) I believe if you truly love someone everything will end up working out. I feel communication is a big part of a relationship, keep that strong and everything will work out. I hope I helped some, or sparked another idea.