How can I get things to be right between us?

Well, Theres This 21 Years Old Called Mike Who I really Like, Im Like 14 And I know there 6yrs Between Me and Him, But Before me and him got to know eachother we used to talk like ones a month on msn because he used to go on his brother msn at niight if it was left logged on…and when we used to talk eh used to proper care for me and stuff, and I asked himonce to add me on msn but he was like noo 16 overs, and stuff, and then a couple months down the line he added mee, and I got to know him and he got to know mee, and he nose I really like him, but he says I have to wait antil im 16..:| And I Foudn out where he worked once, And it up the co-op by the skl and I went out at lunch tiimee with my mate simon and james and I went in the co-op and bought somfing,, and when he got home on msn he was liek why you hanfgin around with simon and stuff:| Basciall trying to choose mee mates for mee And Before All This I promised him I would stop cuting/smoking& to learn more at skl because im Not excually A Boffin at skl he told me to give it all up and I promised him I would, and like in a weeks time I broke it and he started sayin he didnt care about what I did anymore and that I can do what I like:| and I added my mate intot the convosatiopn because he has really upset me, and she was tellin him that he cant boss me about tthoo even tho he only trying to do what best for mee and the wasy he responded to her was like wer both like crap all he could say was Huh Ok Shh Midgit friend and all this:| soo Not Yeasterday wednesday but the week before that I went dwn the shops at nnight and hanged out why he was workin and my mates wer wavin and smilin and stuff :| and when we both wer on msn he had a right go at me sayin That it not just his Work its where he lives and Stuff:| and he wa sjust havin ago at mee..and then fridayy night he went out driinkin so I made up sumfingg about me havin a good ngith saturday, and I whudnt tell him what and he was getin in a right mood with me and stuff becuase iw ouldnt tell him what happend:| why is he getin in a mood with me becaus eiw ouldnt tell him what happend saturday? and thenn yeasterdays wednesday I went and hanged out by the shops agen and I walked in there and he told me to smile becuse I I probley looked sad :| and I was liek why and stuff and then 2nd time we went in da shop I was sayin his hair looked ginger and stuff :| and 3rd timme my mates asked him why he was talkin to him self and stuff and I swere he said he was blinded by our faces :| and when I got on msn I asked him why and who he said he was blinded by our faces and he sed he didnt but I swere he did:| and he just been really off with me latley and I dont know why :| and I just want eveyrthing to bee fine between me and him because it really upsets mee, I no you lot are gna b like it probley a crush but it doesnt feel like it I’ve been out with lads that I’ve really liked and none of them compared to the feelings I’ve got for miike :| and im just really confussed and fked up and just duno what too do and id uno why hee keep going into mood with mee and just stuff :| arggh I need help :|

Answer #1

even if you really like him, he doesnt return the exact same feelings back. if he doesnt care for you, you will end up getting hurt, especially as he is so much older.just think about it, because its not nice having a boyfriend who u feel is using you or hardly cares about you.

Answer #2

The Thing Is, I Cant Help Who I Like, To Be His Friend Yee That Was An Option :| He Always Makes Me Have weird Feeling Inside of me what No-One else Can :| He Means The World To Mee And All My Mates Know How Much I like Him, Nd How run down I Get When I Get Upset Over Silly Things He Says :| Hes A Very Decent Guy..But I just dont Understand Why hes Getting Into Moods With Mee

Answer #3

From what I understand, he seems to be a decent enough guy (decent enough to say you should be at least sixteen - the legal age for something in the UK). You really should find someone your age, though. It’s normal to have a crush on an older guy, but if the older guy actually agrees to go out with you… be wary. Men who like young girls are creepy as hell.

Answer #4

Drop him. Move on. Stop dating old guys.

As for your grammar & spelling… STAY IN SCHOOL!

Answer #5

For slightly better advices, please rewrite your question. Paragraphs are your friends.

Answer #6

…how much longer does it take, when EVERY word is capitalized?

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