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i completely agree with what monique said ..actually love is not just a one day/week thing.when you both come closer,know each other,tell each other about your family (every small thing),get emotionally attached plus when alone you think about that only single person,when you wake up you only think about him/her, when you hear a song you imagine him/her with you in that song ,you see yourself changing...then my dear it is "love" and it really happens.
To truely love someone takes time, I mean for deep love to develop, having said that I met my fiance on the internet and he lived 8,000 miles from me!! I did and still believe I loved him at that time even tho, we didn't meet for 8 months, Now we're getting married and have two little girls together five years on! So I'm not too sure if it's love after 12 days but I can say you can fall in love with someone who you haven't met.
When it comes down to it, love as filletofspam clearly pointed out is an emotion. Truthfully though, you can't just love someone and expect that to work out like in movies because generally, in movies, they all die.
What you need is to build a foundation for what you feel, which comes into play, trust and commitment. The more open you can be with each other, the more you can expand on how you feel with this particular guy.
I think it takes time to really fall in love with someone. People say ''I knew the moment I laid eyes on him/her that I was in love''.. My opinion is love comes later. It takes time to really get to know somebody, inside and out. Their good qualities and bad.. how can you know that if you haven't even seen them yet and have only known them for 12 days? You might be in love with the idea of the person, but not the person perse.
Personally I don't believe so. You are 'in love' with the person you have decided they are in your head. You don't know much about them so your mind has filled in the gaps (big gaps) with what you do desire in a guy. So right now, he is 'the perfect guy', because you don't know the real him yet. Which I'm not saying that the real him is bad, I'm just saying that he will be different than what you have imagined.
I really don't think so girl. I think you can fall into a deep infatuation but true love takes a long time to cultivate. I have only been in love once and I have been with more than a couple girls and that girl I knew for three years before I really felt that true love that people speak of, and trust me it really is that different and you really do know the difference when you feel it.
I have to disagree. I meet my husband and married him a month later. We have been married for 3 years. I knew after 2 weeks that I loved him. I spent every waking moment with him after I met him. You can love a person in a moment but to be in love with them can take time for some people. It all has to do with the people and situation.
it's possible, but highly unprobable. How much do you like this guy? Be honest. If you would give up everything and change your whole life for him, then its love. Chances are, you've been hit with a humongous crush and is in love with the idea of love. Try talking to him and maybe in time, you will love him
i believe so! i met nick and i fell in love with him in a week he has my heart. and we're head over heels in love with eachother.. if you truly feel you have feelings for him. you might be in love.... if you believe you are, go get em.. dont listen to what ppl say..
I agree. It takes me a while to know I'm in love but I'm still a teenager, so I don't know what love is yet apparently. =/ Anyways, before you jump into it right away, start as friends first or something. Just don't assume you are in love. Good luck! =)
i think that you can love someone after recently meeting them..i met my boyfriend of 8 months and we both agreed tht we felt something really special when we first met..however, i think it takes more time to fall innn lovee
If you think so, then don't scare yourself into thinking that it isn't true. Sometimes in love you just know and that is all that matters. Just follow your heart and you will never go wrong. Good luck Hope I helped :)
impossible, the correct term is attatched, Usually, "some" girls want to find love so fast that they tell themselves they're in love, but really aren't this usually happens around the mid teens
u have a point. he told me that he has a secret that cannot tell yet. he says "i will tell my secret from the time we meet". im so confused. i don't know what to think, all i know is i love him.
then spend some more time with your mate by not getting physically attached ,if after one or two months you still feel the same then it is definitely love..good luck!
Yees its Possible...But just to be on the safe side just keep talking for a little bit longer and if you want and if he/she wants to take it to the next level!(:
Yees its Possible...But just to be on the safe side just keep talking for a little bit longer and if you want and if he/she wants to take it to the next level!(:
no. "love" isnt just a word to throw around. thats why its so hard to beleive in it anymore. "Love" has become our biggest cliche.
Love is a feeling. If you feel love for someone you are in love. It can be instantaneous or it can take years to manifest.
Lust as in everything about that person drives you crazy in the good way. Over time you will know if it's love or not.
i experienced it now but im confused because its so fast to feel that way.
thanks for the advice. it really help.
nope. infatuation / desperation...
no, that's called Lust not Love.
chemical reaction in your brain!
yah rigth but im so confused. :(
yeah deffinatly happened to me.
lust? how can it happen?
I feel you. =/
thank you. :)
