Why do you think people fall and stay in love with those they can never be with?

and what happens when you know all the not so great things and it doesnt change anything?

rhetorical question, you dont have to answer :)

Yeah, for some reason, you want what you can’t have more than what you could have. It’s like the challenge is more attracting.. People are also very charming and know how to draw people in.. once they have them hooked, they could say/do whatever they want, and they know the person will still stick around. It sucks, it’s hard… it’s like an addiction.. once you’re sucked in, it’s really hard to get out of it. I personally am attracted to the guys that make it hard for me to get them. I like the chase.. when the guy chases me, when he’s clingy, it’s like I get bored or annoyed. I don’t know why, but I noticed that’s what I always seem to go for… which is why I always get hurt. :)

I think it might have sumthing to do with them wanting that person and always wanting them and knowing that they can ever have them make them want them more… love can do crazy things :)

Wanting something they cannot have…… It makes me laugh when someone tries to break up a relationship, whether it’s a marriage or two people just dating because they see these couples being happy and content and think if they mess up the relationship, she or he can achieve the same result with that person. The wrecker does nor realise that the two personalities before were compatible to begin with and that is what they saw. It does not necessarily mean, they will find the same ‘happy, content’ feeling if they were to replace that person in the relationship….So some people do fall in love with the concept of being in love with someone they have no hope in hell of netting and waste some much energy chasing after that person..…Hope what I wrote makes sense. :

You want what you can’t have

The next statement might help us figure it out. The biggest lie on the planet: “When I get what I want I will be happy”. I totally agree. We tend to crave for something beyond our reach and I thinks it’s pretty normal. Dreams and fantasies are some of the few things that you can have for free so why not take advantage of it right? Lol.