Why do people not like me?

Ok,i was in the exact same posistion as you are now when i was your age. I too had no friends and no one liked me,and yet although i didnt do anyhting to deserve it,i just wasnt liked and picked on. But gotta say well done to ya tryn to make new friends by going up to random tables because i never could and be proud of yourself for doing so. YOu can say you tried and even though it may not have worked so far for you,it will,and on that day all things will change. For my junoir year i was on my own,would hide in the toilets or try to go home at lunch and it was just hell basically and effected me very badly,but then in my leaving year,one day i got talking to this girl beside me and from then on,i got to know her friends and so forth and life was looking up. What im telln ya is that there is light at the end of the tunnel. Some people dont have to go through these things,and are just accepted with loads of friends,but for others,they’re the blunt of it all and life is hard and can be lonely. People dont like you because they’re probably jealous of ya. You say you’re pretty,dress well,talk nicely and do all ya can to help others, sure what isnt there not to be jealous about. Clearly those people who you hang out with arent your friends and use you for favours and i get it,ya wana keep doing it because you feel like ya fit in,but dont waste your time. Its not worth it,they’ll never change. Soon enough you’ll discover yourself and make friends. It may take time,such as did for me,but it happens. And so ya know,once you graduate and head to college,its a whole new world. One you’ll love and where all those “saps” who hurt now will be forgotten and prob workn as bin collecters. Dont give up on yourself and just be yourself. Took me years to figure that out,so start now. Work hard,and dont stop tryn to talk to people,but maybe look for people who you feel will give you the proper time of day. Hope it helps in some way. Best of luck:)

You sound like a wonderful person to me, and it seems your peers are the problem. NOT YOU! It does seem as though you need to stick up for yourself more though. Don’t be mean, but you cannot allow people to treat you like a doormat. Otherwise this sort of behaviour towards you will probably happen in high school. The important question you need to ask yourself is - do you like the person you are? If the answer is yes then don’t change to fit in, be true to yourself. And I hope high school is a happier experience for you. :)

Aw, i’m sorry you were in the same position. It’s nice to know i’m not alone :) Thank you so much! This helped alooot! :)

Thank you! This advice really helps!

Thank you so much! This means alot to me and makes me feel so much better :) :)

kids can be cruel. dont worry about what other people think about you.