over my dad :(

okay this might sound weired but a few weeks ago I had to go to a mental hospital because I said I was going to kill myself and I planed it out and everything so the cops had to arrest me and everything like that and they took me to the hospitsl which I 4 hourse away from were I live…the reson I snaped is because I lost my dad oct.7 and I just went crazy and I had to stay there for 2 weeks it was like hell…but I fill way better now yea I still miss my dad he was the best dad but the ? is do you think im mental and need a lot of help or do you think im okay and I just got really depressed??

Answer #1

No, you’re just weak. You know, there are thousands of people losing the ones they love every day, but they don’t act up and put on a show. They handle it in a MATURE way.

Answer #2

That’s a very intense kind of depression.

That is /not/ normal in any way.

Answer #3

I think that you are probably normal. However, you may need to keep reference sites on hand for those times when you start feeling depressed and feel like you are “losing it”.

Besides always having the ability to talk with people on Fun Advice, try and develop a circle of friends that you can confide in and talk with whenever you start feeling down.

Here is a site that might help:

  Coping with Grief and Loss

http://www.helpguide.org/mental/grief_loss.htm

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Answer #4

HEY I JUST WANTED TO SAY THAT I TRUELY UNDERSTAND HOW YOU FEEL I LOST MY DAD 5YRS AGO when I WAS ONLY 13..AND I TOO FELT LIKE HE WAS THE BEST DAD ANY FAMILY CUD HAVE EVER ASKED FOR AND I TOO FELT LIKE I WANTED TO KILL MY SELF..BUT I HAD FRIENDS THAT HAD LOST A PARENT ALSO SO when TIMES GOT HARD THEY WERE THERE TO HELP..I HONESTLY THINK TIMES HEALS ALL WOUNDS AND I CAN SAY THAT NOW I AM NOT AS MAD OR SAD AS I WAS BEFORE..AND PLS PLS PLS DONT HURT YOURSELF IT ISNT WORTH IT AND IT WONT BRING YOUR DAD BACK…AND YOU WILL HAVE TO LIVE WITH AN UGLY SCAR OR people SAYN SHES CRAZY NOT UNDERSTANDING WHAT your GOING THRU..IF you EVER GET SAD AND NEED SOMEONE TO TALK TO PLS FUNMAIL ME I WILL BE MORE THEN HAPPY TO TALK..GODBLESS YOU AND IM SRY FOR your LOST..

Answer #5

nahh I dont think yur mental at all yu just need to get the emotions of losing yur dada off yur chest and talk to some one yu trust about it

Answer #6

sorry about your dad. I think that was somewat normal, I mean..u lost someone you cared about… :(

Answer #7

Oh my gosh, im pretty sure it’s nornal to kind of freak out when someone close to you dies. I think your ok and all everybody has their moments. That reminds me of when my stepdad got my mum put in there just because she go drunk and acted like she passed out because she did not want to talk to him lol. But she ended up going to the mental hospital too because she tried to kill herself. (I don’t know when getting drunk is trying to kill yourself but oh well.)

Answer #8

My dad took his own life last year!!! I know how it feels.But taking your own life is no answer.It just hurts everyone around you. P.S. Sorry about your dad

Answer #9

I think you’re going to be just fine - people grieve in very different and private ways - it was very hard for you but now you can move forward and make great memories in the future…I wish you every happiness !!

Answer #10

thanks nicksgurl

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