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This was really stupid of me but a while ago like the Friday before v-day was supposed to be a person I really liked last day. I told him i liked him and found he liked me. Well turns out he didn’t get expelled after all, and he came back after awhile. Well I had gotten a crush on someone else by that time and I still like him but things seem awkward. I’ve never really been in a real relationship and it sort of makes me feel dumb thinking about it now. I just don’t think we would work together now… what should I do or say to him? He asked me out before I went to 4th period and all I said was bye and smiled at him! I feel really dumb and we still talk but not like before! It’s different and I feel unwelcomed now! He upset me by cutting himself after he found I cut myself! And since then I’ve sort of avoided him but been nice to him. If he comes around should I give him a chance?

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Answer #1

hey crushes come and go k so dont get to worked up about it if you feel that you need to be the guy #1 then go out with him.

Answer #2

1st of all, you both shudnt cut yourselves. & maybe u need 2 explain 2 him that you just wanna be friends cuz u dont think it will work anymore.

Answer #3

like the rest this is my advice see a shrink!! cutting urselves??? dats freaky, anyway the question is how do u feel about the guy? if u feel there is no chemistry between u two then best opt for friendship, but if there is, then go ahead with with it but be cautious, he cutting himself after hearing u did it, i myt think its obsession. anyway dont take it too fast. take things slow, in every relationship its important to take it easy and not rush into things, i yalking through experience, ur relationship will last longer than u can imagine.

hope this is enough advice for u!

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