Opinion on parents

I believe its wrong when they try to hide it. I think they should let you know that they will be.

I think its rude. We deserve our privacy. Because, until we’re 16 (18 in some countries) we have to live at home, or be in care, or something, so what choice do we have? we cant live on our own, we need our privacy!

Yes I think it is very rude. I used to suffer this problem as a teen. It made me set a wall between me and them.

yes I think it’s wrong… understandable, but wrong…

I think its wrong but they certainly have the right to

If you live at home and you’re under 18, your parents have the right.

No not these days we need to protect our kids .

My mom goes through my brothers stuff and he freaks out. He’s always wondering why she doesn’t do the same thing to me now because she did before. I was what you’d call a “rebelious teen” and, though it was hard, came through that tough time. Now it’s a trust issue and my mom knows she can trust me because she knows I worked hard to come out of some serious stuff and wouldn’t go back … my brother on the other hand is practically screaming “I’M going to DO WHAT I WANT !” without even saying a word. So she goes through his stuff quite often. He’s going to just have to sit through it untill he can make her trust him or untill she stops finding stuff she had suspiscions about.

Let me put it this way:

It makes you mad now, because your young - I remember being a teenager, I remember being pissed off at my mother for going through my thing.

I’m a mother now. I WOULD go through my son’s things when he’s older if I felt that I needed too. Why? Because I love him, and I want to protect him.

When you are a parent, you will understand why parents do these things. I’m not saying it’s right, I’m saying their reasons for doing them are.

If they are suspicious or you have given them a reason to be - then no I dont think it’s wrong.

Parents are just trying to protect their children in the best way they know how, they may not always do the right thing, but they are trying too.

If your not open with your parents and you dont communicate with them, sometimes they feel that’s the only way to figure out what’s going on in your life or if your in trouble.

Well if they have a suspicion that your doing something they don’t wont you doing then ya they have the right.