Not talking to me!!!

My boyfriend and I ave been going out for more than 7 months and latly he hasnt been talking to me at all we used to be so tight! Whats happening? I dont know about him but I stil like him!!! And I asked him ike 2 ties whats wrong and he says hes just busy and thati did nothing wrong! We havent gone out for soe time and hes always busy! We dont go to the same school any more. Could that be y?ugh!!!1i dont know what to do and its killing me inside!!! I saw him recently but he didnt seem happy to see me… And one of why friends asked him if he still likes me but he never answers her… What can or should I do??? I just wan to make him happy!!! We used to be sooo good!! Please…please…help me!!!

Answer #1

It could be a number of things I dont know the two of you, so it’s hard to say. Here’s what it sounds like to me. Either:

-The relationship is not new. You’ve been dating for 7 months. Whenever you date someone longterm, the “newness” has to fade off eventually. You seem to have less to talk about, because you’ve talked about everything already. It’s normal for this to happen, but if you want the relationship to last, you have to spice things up. Try new things, get a hobby together, try new activities, meet new people, etc. You have to work at relationships, they don’t just come easy.

or

-He is avoiding you and doesn’t know how to end thing with you. You’ve been dating a while, so he might be scared to break your heart, even if he isn’t feeling those same feelings towards you anymore. If your friend is asking him if he likes you and he’s not answering, that’s not a good sign. Talk to him about it either way, you have to have good communication to have a good relationship.

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